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    Is it a big deal? Is it going to affect how I am tomorrow?
    I just reached a point where I was a goner and felt so ashamed
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    ...what? :nothing:
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    You have just watched "There's something about Mary" haven't you?
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    Do what you want, just don't get any in her hair...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is it a big deal? Is it going to affect how I am tomorrow?
    I just reached a point where I was a goner and felt so ashamed
    Do it before you meet her. That way you could appreciate her for being her, than just her body. Otherwise you might come across as needy. Nothing scares girl away like desperation.
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    Having thought about it, I'd say don't masturbate. When you're horny, you're a lot more persuasive, sharper with words, and from my own experience, more talkative. However, if you do masturbate before seeing her, you'll have had your sexual needs dealt with so you won't be sitting there thinking 'I need to get laid, I wanna bang her'. I'd prefer to be in the horny state of mind because you can forget about sex temporarily but still have those benefits. I think anyone who got reasonably far on the NoFap challenge might agree with me. It's certainly easier to distinguish a difference in state of mind between having masturbated and not having masturbated.
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    are you a guy or girl?
    also i don't see how it would make any difference the day before
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    Tactical ****!
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    Having thought about it, I'd say don't masturbate. When you're horny, you're a lot more persuasive, sharper with words, and from my own experience, more talkative. However, if you do masturbate before seeing her, you'll have had your sexual needs dealt with so you won't be sitting there thinking 'I need to get laid, I wanna bang her'. I'd prefer to be in the horny state of mind because you can forget about sex temporarily but still have those benefits. I think anyone who got reasonably far on the NoFap challenge might agree with me. It's certainly easier to distinguish a difference in state of mind between having masturbated and not having masturbated.
    Interesting.

    I think it really depends on the girl. If its a casual fling then yeah be horny could be good long as its not too selfish. If its someone more serious then best take a longer term view than sleeping early in dates. That said nothing wrong being a lad.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Interesting.

    I think it really depends on the girl. If its a casual fling then yeah be horny could be good long as its not too selfish. If its someone more serious then best take a longer term view than sleeping early in dates. That said nothing wrong being a lad.
    You don't have to bang her just because you're horny.. But when you're horny you're more attractive. Some may disagree, but I think it gives you more sex-appeal. You can go home and sort yourself afterwards obviously. Don't let your penis dictate your actions too much though man. This shouldn't really be too much of a question, but it seems like your sex drive plays too big a role in things.

    Could you imagine Daniel Craig busting one out in the hotel bathroom in Casino Royale before going downstairs with the beautiful Eva Green? Highly doubt it.
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    i dont understand your logic at all?

    why would u wanna masturbate before a date? i dont understand what ur on about?
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    I don't see the issue with this.
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    Obviously wouldn't want to masturbate immediately before a date, my question is whether it's going to make a difference to my horniness the next day, or whether I need to really try and leave it for a few days
    I somehow feel like it would make a real difference
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is it a big deal? Is it going to affect how I am tomorrow?
    I just reached a point where I was a goner and felt so ashamed
    Day before? why not before the date?
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    Sorry, what's the issue?

    I mean, so long as you don't whip it out in the middle of the date and *** on her face...

    Surely you know what your sex drive is like and how long it would take before you feel horny again?
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    (Original post by RichyFrench)
    Having thought about it, I'd say don't masturbate. When you're horny, you're a lot more persuasive, sharper with words, and from my own experience, more talkative.

    What!?!?


    Trust me, nothing is more likely to get you into bed with a girl than being turned off and not interested. Sad but true. Horniness in men is unattractive.. :devil:

    I believe it's called Murphy's Law.
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    (Original post by snowyowl)
    I mean, so long as you don't whip it out in the middle of the date and *** on her face...
    i thought this was the standard thing to do on successful dates :hmmm: :pierre:
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    u should be canoodling with urself daily regardless of whether or not u have a date
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What!?!?


    Trust me, nothing is more likely to get you into bed with a girl than being turned off and not interested. Sad but true. Horniness in men is unattractive.. :devil:

    I believe it's called Murphy's Law.
    Murphy's Law is anything bad that could possibly happen, will happen.

    I'm not saying you have to look/act desperate because you're horny. You don't have to hump a table to show how you feel. You can still sit back and be aloof while horny. When you've got more testosterone in your system, you're more likely to take risks and do exciting stuff. You'll be less worried about going in for that kiss when the time comes.

    If you're getting all the signs but you're not horny, you're probably less likely to make a move in case it fails. Going for it doesn't seem as important so you're less likely to be bothered about getting physical, which is what you wanted in the first place.

    Read this from Men's Health:
    Feeling Horny?
    Talk
    Rather than take matters into your own hands, use your animal instincts to get your own way. And not just in the bedroom. The extra testosterone pulsing through your veins while you’re turned on makes you a more persuasive speaker. Researchers from the University of Manchester found that men with extra testosterone are 20 per cent better with “verbal fluency”. In other words, it coats your tongue in silver. So, rather than reach for the tissue, use arousal to call in favours, make apologies or ask Little Miss No-Chance out on a date.
    I fully believe this, I've noticed it myself. When I'm horny, my way with words is incredible.
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    You have much to learn.
 
 
 
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