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Asking a new partner about your sexual fantasies watch

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    So I had a one night stand about a month ago now with this girl. We've know each other since September, but we don't hang in the same circles and if we talk it's generally about the weather.

    A friend of mine (this same night) invited me to a party I had nothing else to do and went she was there also. We still didn't even talk that much; then towards the end of the night I wouldn't say I was uber-drunk but I was and we started chatting about random crap.

    A few of us played a drinking game which left me in my boxers. She wouldn't take her eyes off me. Next thing we were having sex. The next day we did it again; but she asked me if I would tie her up and be all dominating!

    We didn't in the end as I felt uncomfortable with it all really, if she was my girlfriend then maybe I would have.

    I myself have a sexual fantasy, it's very boring just sex in public. But I would never ask someone who I didn't know that well.

    Do people do that Would you?

    My ex was open about that kind of stuff, so I didn't mind. I was still kind of reserved but I put that down to him being more adventurous and more experienced while I was young and inexperienced and just getting used to the whole sex thing haha.

    Now, if I was in a comfortable relationship I'd definitely talk about fantasies - With a ONS or someone I wasn't entirely comfortable with then no.

    She must have felt comfortable enough with you to start talking about that!
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