Boyfriend or the guy from work. Please help.

Might not be the best idea, but personally I'd leave it til after the hol then see how things are going & if they aren't going great do something then

I think everyone comes to a stage at some point in their relationship where they feel bored, frusutrated, curious or whatever.
But often you can work past it and your back to where you were before, knowing your with the right person. (If you have been with this guy for a year and half and your still with him, something must be going right)
You should also consider that this guy from work, may not be all he is cracked out to be. It's not until you have been with someone for a while that you start seeing their true colours which is why you should try with your current boyfriend before calling it a day.
Take a look at your boyfriend next time your with him and think, do I really see myself being with this guy for a long time? What do I love about him?
Also, imagine what it would be like if he wasnt around.

Basically, don't jump ship because you have convinced yourself that it's sinking as it may not be. And Make sure the ship across the water( no matter how good looking and cool it is) doesn't already have a hole in it.

Let me know how it goes, sorry I couldn't give you a definite answer, but I think only you can do that.

This is good advice. I get what you're saying but I've had these feelings bout the relationship being enough, but I've never done anything bcos I was always too scared I'd never meet anyone. That was basically because he has a major problem with me going out. But now, my life's changed a bit and I know that without him I'll still have a life.

A major problem with you going out? I'm loosing sympathy for him now. It sounds like you are making the right choice to me. I would dump him before the holiday. ASAP even. Someone else could moving in on your co-worker while you are on holiday! life back home does not stay static while we go abroad unfortunately .

Jaded

...I feel so sorry for your boyfriend.

This true but I don't want to cause the upset with my parents over them losing like £800 on the holiday, and even him losing his £400 cos he doesn't earn much to have to save this for a holiday. But I'm just hoping i can manage till after the holiday if these feelings continue. I want the guy from work though but at the same time i can't finish with the boyfriend yet. And someone suggested steer things dwn with the boyfriend % get it going with the guy from work. but that's cheating and my boyfriend doesn't deserve that, cos I know he loves me even if i don't feel the same about him. Hmph. I hate relationships & all these stupid feelings

I think you are focusing on the money aspect too much. How do you think your parents will feel when they realise you were thinking about breaking with him for the entire of the holiday? Your boyfriend too? I just think a giant pool of unhappiness is being filled for the sake of a few hundred pounds. I understand you also don't want to ruin the holiday, but your parents and boyfriend will have to live with the sour memories for the rest of their lives. Also your own feeling too are being hurt by the deceit.

Jaded

Hi. I have a boyfriend and we've been together for a year and a half. I still care about him, but i'm starting to get bored and think it's time to call it a day. He hasn't done anything wrong, and he's so sweet to me, it's just the way I feel.