So I've been with my boyfriend for a while.
He's a nice enough dude but I don't think I'm physically attracted to him. Where as in my previous relationships, there would usually be a lot of passion (and sex), in my current relationship, I don't even feel like making out with him.
What would you guys do? and what do you think I should do?
Thanks for any help :3
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Not being physically attracted to your partner watch
- Thread Starter
- 17-04-2013 19:34
- 17-04-2013 23:03
What advice would you give your best friend if they told you the exact same situation?
- 17-04-2013 23:05
Should've left him in the friend zone. Relationship expiry-date fast approaching.
- 17-04-2013 23:10
Yeah this not good but it's not your fault and most likely your sex life will suffer as a consequence. I'd had a partner who I loved and was a great person but the insufficient physical attraction caused difficulties in bed. Best to just be friends.
- 17-04-2013 23:13
I think you need to both realise being friends may be the best option.
That said, are you sure things just haven't got same old, same old, and you just need to realise how you felt when you first started going out with him?
- 17-04-2013 23:47
get out of it now OP trust me i could not be with someone i was not physically attracted to rather by on my ones.
- 17-04-2013 23:49
you already know what you should do and there's nothing wrong with it, better for both of you
- 18-04-2013 00:16
Describing your boyfriend as a "nice enough dude" says it all really.
Why have you gotten yourself into a relationship with someone you're not attracted to? Sure, there's more to a person than their looks, but the main thing that makes a relationship different from a friendship is the sex/sexual attraction so it does need to be taken into account and evidently it just isn't there.
I think you know the answer to your question.
There's nothing wrong with not being attracted to someone, keeping them from being happy with someone who fancies the arse off them when you're not really bothered however, isn't okay.
- 18-04-2013 00:25
I had a very similar thing but because it was my first relationship i didnt know at the time what the problem was- i thought i was asexual or something!
Now i have a boyfriend i very much fancy and i cant keep my hands off him lol