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Does anyone else feel like they're always in the position of "ugly one" when they go out with a friend of the same sex? Or is it just me? Lol.
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yeah everyone analyses the person opposite them and thinks the other person is better.. the other person is probably jealous of u so dont worry about it.
Your not alone there! Just dont do what i did and pathetically start refusing to go out to clubs/bars cos you feel inferior
Its hard, but the key is self-accaptance. You always will be your own harshest critic
Its hard, but the key is self-accaptance. You always will be your own harshest critic
yep...usually have that feeling too
but there are friends where i feel quite gorgeous sometimes...
but there are friends where i feel quite gorgeous sometimes...
Anonymous
Your not alone there! Just dont do what i did and pathetically start refusing to go out to clubs/bars cos you feel inferior
Its hard, but the key is self-accaptance. You always will be your own harshest critic
Its hard, but the key is self-accaptance. You always will be your own harshest critic
Haha everyone replying is anon, I sense some embarrassment
Lol it's more like everyone talks to the other person instead of to me, and if I try and talk I kinda get ignored
Lol it's more like everyone talks to the other person instead of to me, and if I try and talk I kinda get ignored
unless you are hideously ugly (as in painful to look at) then i doubt that people talking to your friend is to do with looks. Probably to do with approachability. Maybe she smiles more/looks more friendly/looks talkative?
unless you are hideously ugly (as in painful to look at) then i doubt that people talking to your friend is to do with looks. Probably to do with approachability. Maybe she smiles more/looks more friendly/looks talkative?
never really thought about it
all my friends are pretty average looking anyway, myself included i think
all my friends are pretty average looking anyway, myself included i think
well, are you sure that they dont talk more to a particular friend/couple of friends because they know them better?
Like they are in the same classes etc and have more in common, but genuinely arent aware theyre talkin more to each other?
Like they are in the same classes etc and have more in common, but genuinely arent aware theyre talkin more to each other?
Anonymous
well, are you sure that they dont talk more to a particular friend/couple of friends because they know them better?
Like they are in the same classes etc and have more in common, but genuinely arent aware theyre talkin more to each other?
Like they are in the same classes etc and have more in common, but genuinely arent aware theyre talkin more to each other?
No these are just randoms on nights out. I'd like to think that I'm approachable etc but maybe I don't have the necessary charisma or something?
EDIT I don't usually mind but it's been getting to me recently for some reason
yeah maybe your friend's charisma just makes it easier for people to talk to? some people are just like that. Imagine you had to go up to two people and tell them something. I bet you would automatically turn and direct your words to one of them over the other. I don't people do it deliberately to ignore you or anything. Next time you're out just make an effort to be more smiley and open to conversation.
It's so bad to almost resent your friends though
Anonymous
It's so bad to almost resent your friends though
Aaah, no see, you shouldn't go about resenting them. It isn't their fault that they're like that. Everyone's got their own unique 'thing' about them which makes them special, right? (supposedly), so they perhaps look upon you and envy your talent that they might not have.
Being outrageously attractive isn't *absolutely* everything, afterall.
my brothers girlfriend is gorgeous and always accessorises brilliantly and i feel like a slob compared to her, i love her to bits but i wish she'd dress like a slob once in a while hehe
Actually, I often find it considerably more degrading to embark on a night out with acquaintances who were hitherto by my own estimation 'average' at best: such firmly trumps any excuse I might have for their enduring propensity to 'pull'; that is, save for a dawning realisation that I am even less attractive than previously thought to be the case.
Yeah I know what u mean. But u jsut gotta look at urself in the mirror in even the worst of times and say 'damn. I look good'
I have a really bad problem with me looking 12/13 and being 5ft tall when im 20! I feel like a freak and people look at me weird when i tell them my age.
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