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If I'm nervous about having sex, am I not ready? And does it hurt? Watch

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, and we've decided it's time to have sex. We don't know when exactly it'll be, but I am just nervous in case it hurts.. Any advice/feedback would be appreciated!
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    Build up to it. Do other sexual things, both together and alone. Alone, I feel is important. You need to know your own body and what feels good and what doesn't so you can communicate that to your partner... As said, build up to it, use fingers to slowly stretch yourself and have your boyfriend do it for you and it shouldn't hurt, also have lube as that will help.

    Being nervous is normal. No one will be able to tell you whether it will hurt or not, that depends on you and your body and the way you and your partner go about it.
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    I'm 19, and yes I've already done other sexual things which is why we think we're ready now. Thanks for your help!
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    It hurt for me, but only a tiny bit. And I wanted to go again right after so it can't have been too awful.
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    It didn't hurt too much for me but I think everyone's different. All my friends said different things in regards to how much it hurt.

    And no being nervous doesn't mean you're not ready. It's natural to be nervous. As long as you're comfortable with your boyfriend and want to do it then go for it.
 
 
 
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