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    Hi there.

    Im after some advice, i want to kiss one of my male mates so much it actually hurts me inside. Im bisexual which he knows about and was fine with this when i told him however he is engaged and i think he might be curious etc i have liked him for about 12 years but dont know what to do about it?
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    If he's engaged then he's strictly off-limits. You need to respect his relationship, no matter how much you think he might want to try it with a guy. You'd be better off meeting other men.
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    I know not to even go near it so to speak as it would be wrong with being engaged problem is i cant get him out of my head. He is constantly arguing with his fiance too.
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    You can't
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    (Original post by Caracxa)
    You can't
    i know its just so hard when you want to be with someone so much!
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    I recommend cutting off the friendship. Fancying, or even unrequited loving best friends gives you no room or space to get over them. As someone who went through the same thing, I'm much happier now. I do miss him though.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i know its just so hard when you want to be with someone so much!
    I know it is hard but even if he is having a bad time with his partner then there is still nothing you can do.
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    but not being mates punishes both as i value him as a mate and he does the same back
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    If you want him then tell him. This isn't about his fiance. It's about you and your feelings.
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    (Original post by Chadya)
    If you want him then tell him. This isn't about his fiance. It's about you and your feelings.
    He already knows and was fine with it when i told him. He just laughs about it.
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    are u a male or woman
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