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    Okay this is my story..pretty much I'm in a relationship with a girl I met whilst at university. she's a local to my university area and has 3 kids.
    Her kids have never really had a proper father figure, even though the dad has them on weekends. It started off as just sex..but now it's turned into a serious relationship..her kids have grown attached to me..and me a bit to them..The worry I have is that I really don't know if i love her..and her kids and if I could ever take it further..I finish university next year and i'll have nowhere to live in the local uni area..infact i planned to go whereever there was work and with my uni being a small town uni i doubt it will be where she lives. I've already spoke to her abit about my feelings and she just tells me we will deal with it when it comes to that..and love will grow. But we've been together for 8 months now..the other thing is that I've noticed alot of my friends have got distant with me since i got with her, alot of them because they don't like her and think shes too controlling.. my worry is letting her kids down and her..and i feel like am leading her on if you get me?
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    as you know how you feel I can't tell you what to say- however you could explain to the kids that you're going to work and because it's so far you won't be able to see them for a while. but please make sure you tell her why you're doing this to her; us girls are paranoid and sensitive and I've just dealt with a breakup and I don't know why we broke up; he keeps on giving me stupid lies instead of the truth. sorry ill shut up, but seriously if you don't like her or aren't sure if you do, it probably means you don't like her, therefore you should just tell her the exact truth
 
 
 
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