I'm Christian and would like to date a fellow Christian guy if possible, but one thing I can't get my head around is how much they seem to dislike women who are even remotely sexual. I'm not at all immoral and am a really nice person and go to church often, but whenever I even talk to my religious guy friends about doing something tiny (like when I joke about getting off with a guy in a club the night before), or they see me on a night out in a tiny outfit, or flirting with one of my other guy friends, they're really judgmental, and it makes me feel awful about just acting like most girls do.
It's not just about me either - they've voiced a dislike of everything from dirty song lyrics (which I find amusing) to provocative adverts to girls "being too friendly" even if they're not actively flirty. I'm not sure if they're being hypocritical or are just really sexually strict and expect girls to be like that too. Obviously I understand some guys who aren't religious are also like that.
Am I setting myself up for failure by dating religious guys? I was brought up in a very strict household and wasn't even allowed to have a boyfriend, so I'm hardly a slag but I'm not letting any guy restrain my sexuality. I wouldn't want to date someone who wasn't even comfortable with some heavy kissing and petting, or couldn't accept the fact I like to dress in a certain way on nights out.