Then this is saying lesbian sex isn't actually sex? 0: and lesbians who never had sex with a man will remain forever a virgin despite possibly having lots of women sex?
It's all subjective isn't it. Sex for a straight couple is penetrative sex... sex for a lesbian couple can't be penetrative (with out toys ect) and so subjectively losing your sexual virginity as a lesbian is probably just going down on one another ect. By the same token, gay sex is commonly seen as anal sex so for gay males then this would be seen as losing their virginity not getting oral.
Also, if the penis goes in for a while for like 3 inches would you class that as losing virginity?
Apparently, if you're married to someone, and have sex with someone else, 1 inch counts as adultery. So I would think 3 inches counts. And surely some people have really little penises so it must count if that's all they can give you.. (haha.)