Lonliness

I broke up with my girlfriend at 1:54 this morning. My family went to Italy at 6:30 in the morning. I feel like there is a huge chunk of me missing, and I'm lonely beyond words. The only thing I want is to see my grilfriend, but we've talked and she doesn't want it to continue. I feel like absolute **** because she said that she's hurting just as much, but it's better in the long run. So basically I must've been hurting her all along, without even knowing.

What can I do?

Reply 1

bonnie

i know nothing about the two of you or your relationship but i still want to say that at least don't let her make you feel guilty about this ! you've got the right to be angry right now.

i know it's hard i've been there a few times.. the best thing you can do is call a friend. go spend the night a their's even.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Ice cream. Chocolate. Soppy film. Have a good cry. It will pass (hopefully).

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Well I don't know the circumstances of your break up but is there any way to patch things up?

Reply 4

Wonderboy Blue

I recently broke up with my girlfriend and feel the same way.

Although she really wasn't good for me and we're better off apart...I don't know why I still want her. I'm gonna go get real drunk real soon, that should help.

Reply 5

zain88

set yourself a period of time (3 days? a week? whatever) to be sad and cry and be lonely and just grieve over the whole thing, spoil yourself, don't feel at all bad in that time about making a big fuss and feeling terrible. then after that period is up, pull yourself together and start the slow and long 'getting over her' period.

Reply 6

*Claire*

Aww I really feel for you. Break ups are hard anyway but if you haven't got people around its even harder. I broke up my my bf at uni & had no1 at uni I could talk to, I just really wanted a hug. Have you got a friend you could call/invite round. Just having some1 there might make youi feel less abandoned!

Reply 7

gCarroll

gCarroll is with you.

:hugs:

Reply 8

Schmokie Dragon

Get some mates over. Not loud, brash ones, just people who will respect your space and be there for you. If not, get online and talk talk talk. It helps me to have come form of contact with people.

Is there no chance of you sorting things out with your lass? If you can show that you understand what went wrong then maybe she will give you another chance?

But there is no cure for lonliness honey. I'm sorry.

(I'm going through a breakup too, so I know how you feel)

Reply 9

x In Love Again x

same
in a kind of on off relationship
when its on im completely euphoric
when its off (like now) it feels like theres nothing for me in this world
thhey were my everything
and i dont know if theyll come back now
and the worst thing is they can live perfectly fine wihtout me cos they have close friends who they love more than me, so theyre happy
and im dying
and it just sucks
cos i literally have noone now
so i totally symapthise :'(