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    I'm so crap at reading signs. Recently I was introduced to this guy at work he gave me that look like he was checking me out and we said our hello's. On our next encounter I was reintroduced and left with him for a while. He was sooooo quiet most of the time (probably due to him being new). He kept glancing over at me intensely then when I went over to my colleague I turn around he's just looking at me. At one point we had our backs facing he was dealing with a customer and I turn around and he's looking at me again I went all shy and said sorry for some reason and he smiled. I actually felt awkward not in a bad way per say, I definetly felt a certain vibe from him. The weird thing is this guy smiles alot and I was smiling every time I noticed him looking, I usually give a dirty look self consciously and shy away when guys look at me.

    I don't know what it is about this guy!! Am I wrong in thinking he may be attracted to me? Even yesterday when I saw him there was something in the air.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The weird thing is this guy smiles alot and I was smiling every time I noticed him looking, I usually give a dirty look self consciously and shy away when guys look at me.

    I don't know what it is about this guy!! Am I wrong in thinking he may be attracted to me? Even yesterday when I saw him there was something in the air.
    Giving him a dirty look as well as his shyness is probably putting him off from talking to you.

    Why don't you initiate a conversation. If you work together, some common work-related theme.
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    (Original post by Post-grad)
    Giving him a dirty look as well as his shyness is probably putting him off from talking to you.

    Why don't you initiate a conversation. If you work together, some common work-related theme.
    I didn't give him a dirty look lol. I said I usually do but with guy I was smiling back. I did Start a conversation at first he said so little, then the second time we spoke he talked more and started asking questions.
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    Aw! This sounds promising. Let us know how it goes!
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    (Original post by booksnob)
    Aw! This sounds promising. Let us know how it goes!
    Lol I hope so!
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    In order to bump it, we need fresh information Made any progress?
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    (Original post by booksnob)
    In order to bump it, we need fresh information Made any progress?
    Not much has happened. I saw him briefly today, he just did the staring thing and said barely anything. He seems incredibly shy, i was surprised that he actually said bye to me before he left. I don't know how to get anywhere with him. I barely see him as it is.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Not much has happened. I saw him briefly today, he just did the staring thing and said barely anything. He seems incredibly shy, i was surprised that he actually said bye to me before he left. I don't know how to get anywhere with him. I barely see him as it is.
    Maybe ask him if he fancies a drink, if you're finishing at the same time?
    I don't really know what to say - so long as you're doing your bit, you can only hope he does the same.
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    (Original post by booksnob)
    Maybe ask him if he fancies a drink, if you're finishing at the same time?
    I don't really know what to say - so long as you're doing your bit, you can only hope he does the same.

    Yeah *sigh* thanks
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    (Original post by booksnob)
    Maybe ask him if he fancies a drink, if you're finishing at the same time?
    I don't really know what to say - so long as you're doing your bit, you can only hope he does the same.
    This time around he was a bit different. We said our usual hello's then we had sometime alone. He spoke loads, I wasn't getting one word replies he was elaborating, asking questions. I made him laugh here and there, he said he was going on holiday so I asked if he could take me in his suitcase and I joked about him buying sandals when he said he was going shopping. He's definetly more relaxed and clearly not as shy as I initially thought. Won't see him for a while now.
 
 
 
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