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How can i get him?

ok i like this lad purely from looks (he's bloody gorgeous really preety boy like) and he lives down the road from me. he's seen me in spoons and around a few times on a night out. ahhh what can i do to get him its driving me mad? i know ppl say its just a crush and it will fade but its taking aggggggges ive liked him for a good two month. and it stupid as i never even spoken to him. i know his name due to living in my area and chilling wid his sis wen i was little. ahhh tips please,

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Reply 1
spoons??? You arent from Skipton are you??

Just have a few chats with him
Flash him.
Reply 3
The Mudman
Flash him.


Great minds think alike :rolleyes:

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--marty
Reply 4
no im not, yeah but ill be to shy to start random convo incase he thinks im sum kind of weirdo grrrrrr why does he have to be bloody gorgeous!!!
I think u should try having a convo wiv this guy. How do u know if u've got anything in common if u don't. Plus it will show that ur interested. Try by saying Hi to him next time u bump into him and smile & gaze @ him 4 a couple of seconds. Then this will make him notice that u actually exist & that u like him. So wat if he thinks u look stupid, weird or watever!! If he does think this of you then he is totally not worth it & you should then move on. There is plenty more fish in the sea!!

Try & make a move else u will never know and u will always have the wonder of wat if. Believe me I know this as I had a major crush on this guy when i was @ secondary school for 4 years and I know he liked me 2 as his m8 told me who didnt know i actually liked him 2 cause i never told ne1 not even my best m8 knew. but neither of us ever made a move as we were both shy and I always wonder and wish i had made a move.
Reply 6
hey...okay soo u like his looks...get him to notice u ...in a nice way ...dont do something silly...go out with ur friends and hang out at one of his hang outs and look really cute ... catch his eye and smile back... do that for a couple of days ... and then say hi ... a sweet cheeky hi ... next time wait for a hi from him ... and then go with how u been ? ... and stuff like that ... ull will sure to be friends ...
have fun
^Agree with pink star..
If you talk to him, you'll either gain a chance of him liking you, or you'll see that you don't like his personality and then you'll stop liking him
:ditto:
Reply 9
or you could get wasted its easy in spoons with the cheap beer/spirits... go up to the bar when he is there and then start a convo
Well if you like him just because he is purely good looking then, you don't know his personality, he could be very arrogant, best to get to know him first before you start making any move.
well....if he's that gorgeous, you won't be the only girl interested in him, there will be millions of girls who talk to him regularly so if you aren't willing to try and strike up a conversation then forget about him

ps be prepared for him either a) having a girlfriend or b) being a player
Purely from looks? Right, if you do have any success, that should last a good week or two.
Reply 13
How can fancy someone just on looks :confused: ? That's just being attracted to them - ie think they're good looking eg. I think Hugh Grant is amazingly attractive. I don't FANCY him!
Reply 14
minimo
How can fancy someone just on looks :confused: ? That's just being attracted to them - ie think they're good looking eg. I think Hugh Grant is amazingly attractive. I don't FANCY him!



Good point.

OP - you need to chat to him. He might turn out to be a loser and you are just wastingf your time worrying about this stuff if that's the case.
Just go up to him and say - hi, what's your name, I've seen you in here a few times and thought i'd come and say hi, blah blah.
Reply 15
minimo
How can fancy someone just on looks :confused: ? That's just being attracted to them - ie think they're good looking eg. I think Hugh Grant is amazingly attractive. I don't FANCY him!
You are wise beyond your years :biggrin:
Reply 16
wild_horses
well....if he's that gorgeous, you won't be the only girl interested in him, there will be millions of girls who talk to him regularly so if you aren't willing to try and strike up a conversation then forget about him

ps be prepared for him either a) having a girlfriend or b) being a player



Or gay...
Reply 17
i dont think he is gay. yeah he caught me looking at him before in spoons and he looked at me for a good ten seconds *sighs* yet i kinda froze and didnt smile at him. but i couldnt talk to him as i was with this other guy and my mate so yano ahhhh. so next time i see him u rekon i shud smile over, ahhhhhh i fink shud pop round to his house make friends wid his little sis again haha x
Reply 18
Yes, yes, yes. Approach him and see where the current takes you after that. There's not much point sitting around and admiring him from afar. What you're experiencing now is definitely infatuation though so don't jump into making any commitments or dwell too much with this unless you're absolutely sure.
Reply 19
OK next time i see him out and about ill smile over. Hopefully ill b looking gorgeous! thats the thing i bet everyother girl in our area fancies hima s well