Help! nasty friend! need adviceWatch
he thought id done something mean to one of our other friends (which i hadn't, he'd misunderstood) and, thinking this, he called me a vindictive little (here he trailed off) then a malicious... I was so shocked i didn't know what to say, Ive never been called anything like that before? im so upset about it. I'll see him again on monday, and i really want to tell him how much he hurt me, not just by what he said, but by the fact he was so quick to say it? like those words had just been waiting there?! does anyone have any advice? im completely out of my depth when it comes to dealing with this sort of a confrontation, please help!
After everything is iron out, then tell him that you don't really feel good about what he said and that it hurts.
I am quite sure a normal person will apologise to you nisi he's a high on ego person.
I would admit that your guy friend pretty much jumps to conclusion way too fast and he's no doubt pretty much at fault.
Anyway, these type of conflict is part of day to day life. In the meantime, don't brood upon it since you are obviously innocent. Have a nice glass of milk and carry on with your routine lifestyle. Come Monday, when you meet him, then do what you are supposed to do.
Trust me, there's nothing to worry about.
Main point: Relax, don't brood about it.
That makes me feel much better!! Ill talk to him about it! hes a christian, so he should be very repentant!!! (im not, so he'll probably end up praying for me !) Thanks for the advice! i have been thinking about it too much! but i have plenty of work to be doing! should keep my mind off it!
Yup, you should probably do your work and don't let this minor stuffs affect you too much.[/COLOR]
Your friend seems ver passionate, is he an Actor?
A) doesnt get out much
B) was an actor.
It sounds as if the words were on the tip of his tongue, waiting to be unleashed at the nearest oppurtunity.
Yess... that's what I thought it sounded like. Hmm.. the 'actor' theory is quite novel.
(QUOTE)A) doesnt get out much
B) was an actor.(QUOTE)
I suppose id have to go for a!?