OK so at a pub I go to quite regularly (couple of times a week), one particular barmaid and I chat a fair bit, often throwing casual insults, and general 'banter'. However, whenever my friends see said conversations, they swear down that she is flirting with me! I don't see it that way myself, but I'm useless at spotting such things!
She's a couple of years older than me, and isn't the type I would usually go for per se, but we seem to get on quite well.
If I was to make a move, what should I do? Don't know if it would be a bit awkward or something to ask for her number or something! Just try and throw out some slightly more flirtatious lines, and see how she responds?
Help would be appreciated! http://static1.tsrfiles.co.uk/6.1/im...lies/smile.png Thanks.
Pub barmaid... watch
- Thread Starter
- 14-05-2013 22:38
- 15-05-2013 00:09
I think a massive sign is asking about her relationship status in a subtle way... or mentioning the fact that you're single? if she responds flirtaciously, it really won't be awkward to ask for her number, or just suggest going for a drink when she's not working. If she's into you, she'll be certain to give you her number! good luck
- Thread Starter
- 15-05-2013 00:15
- 15-05-2013 12:14
hmm, well, it doesn't have to be that obvious or you could just be completely direct! As a girl, I would appreciate someone being direct- if she likes you, your confidence will make you even more irresistable in her eyes! Just flirt with her and then ask if it's possible to get her number, then I'm sure you can take it from there. Or, you could write your number down and pass it to her before you leave, that way it's up to her to take it to the next level good luck!