We were in a relationship for about 2 1/2 months and he suddenly dumped me because he said I was too tight...
Now I am a student so I don't exactly have money to throw away. We used to go for meals and I paid a few times but he definitely paid for both of us a lot more than I did. I simply couldn't afford it.
I'm on minimum wage and he is above MW, and does more hours so he has more money than me. He seems to think that I had lots of money but just wasn't spending it. For example he would ask me to come to the cinema but I just didn't have enough money and I wasn't due to be paid for another 2 weeks. I tried to explain but he didn't want to listen to my 'excuses'.
Do you think this was the sole reason for dumping me? I don't think we had any problems but I don't see why he couldn't have just spoken to me about it. I would have told him everything. There must have been another reason?
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My boyfriend dumped be because I'm too tight? watch
- Thread Starter
- 14-05-2013 22:30
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- 14-05-2013 22:33
Sounds like an excuse to me, ask him to give a real reason so you can get some actual closure .
- 14-05-2013 22:37
Firstly, to digress, I definitely didn't think you meant money tight at first
Anyway onto the real reply: sounds like he isn't someone you'd want to be a relationship anyway. He probably was just to much of a coward to say that he'd got bored/found someone else/was too much of a manchild to be a proper relationship, so tried to find any other excuse which puts you in the wrong!
Forget about him and move on. 2 months is hardly any time at all anyway.
- 14-05-2013 22:43
Maybe it was because you were too tight in more ways than one But I would get in touch with him, have him talk to you about it etc just so you can have real closure
- 14-05-2013 22:44
I'm with these guys I totes thought you were talking about your punani
At least you were together for a short while. I've been with my bf for 8 years now, can hardly dump him for stuff like this can I