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    Will try keep short as possible, basically was with my gf just over a year, we were really close, we had a few big heated arguments, i got quite angry sometimes and ignored her because she wouldnt listen, but we loved each other and we worked it out. But i didnt know this guy had been talking to her and being "nice" to her whenever we argued and she eventually got feelings for him and cheated on me with him. She kept crying but i forgave her, then a week later she left me and 2 days after she was going out with him????! After she left me she said she still loved me, would never forget me and that she wanted to stay friends. (Note she kept changing her mind saying she wants me in her life to she doesnt want me in her life). She said no one could compare to me but she couldnt take the arguments anymore(i did tend to push her away when i got annoyed), she even said initially that she wanted to get back in future, but then she kept crying on the phone and told me to move on?! Shes really confusing me sending mixed signals, she hinted she wanted to see me when she was with her mate so i came to see her but she got angry and wouldnt even come out her house then her mate came and told me she doesnt want u here?! She appologised later that night, but anyway is it quite likely this new guy is just a rebound? I really love her but i dont know what to do. We both made alot of mistakes in the relationship but do i still have a chance or not? I tried mentioning the main points but theres alot to it, obv not going to type an essay lol.
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    Will try keep short as possible, basically was with my gf just over a year, we were really close, we had a few big heated arguments, i got quite angry sometimes and ignored her because she wouldnt listen, but we loved each other and we worked it out. But i didnt know this guy had been talking to her and being "nice" to her whenever we argued and she eventually got feelings for him and cheated on me with him. She kept crying but i forgave her, then a week later she left me and 2 days after she was going out with him????! After she left me she said she still loved me, would never forget me and that she wanted to stay friends. (Note she kept changing her mind saying she wants me in her life to she doesnt want me in her life). She said no one could compare to me but she couldnt take the arguments anymore(i did tend to push her away when i got annoyed), she even said initially that she wanted to get back in future, but then she kept crying on the phone and told me to move on?! Shes really confusing me sending mixed signals, she hinted she wanted to see me when she was with her mate so i came to see her but she got angry and wouldnt even come out her house then her mate came and told me she doesnt want u here?! She appologised later that night, but anyway is it quite likely this new guy is just a rebound? I really love her but i dont know what to do. We both made alot of mistakes in the relationship but do i still have a chance or not? I tried mentioning the main points but theres alot to it, obv not going to type an essay lol.
    Wow to be perfectly honest she sounds a nutcase, I would cut all contact with her because it seems she has no idea what she wants. In hindsight you should really have left her when she cheated on you, chances are the guy is a rebound but in all honesty if she really wanted you she would never have cheated or left you in the first place.
 
 
 
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