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    Met a guy on a night out who I really like.
    However, I slept with his friend that night (first time Ive ever had a ONS, instant regret )
    Now I feel awful. I still really like the first guy, I've been talking to him since and he doesn't know what happened between his friend and me.

    What do I do? I would definitely love to see the guy again, but if he knew he probably wouldn't be interested but I don't know that I could hide that from him
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    if i was you I'd lay your cards out on the table before anything happens because the lie would just get bigger and bigger, he would probably be very hurt if you didn't tell him and he had to find out some other way. If i was in your position i would say before the secret becomes to big and you feel you can't say!
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    If you get involved with him his friend will heckle him to no end about how he 'liberated' you first. And if this guy finds out, but after developing any feelings for you, things will get seriously messy.

    I say that you should inform him, and by should I mean you have to unless you are going to back away, but I can not guarantee that he'll be interested in you as a potential partner and would guess that you've kind of ruined your chance.

    Live and learn.
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    (Original post by Mockery)
    If you get involved with him his friend will heckle him to no end about how he 'liberated' you first. And if this guy finds out, but after developing any feelings for you, things will get seriously messy.

    I say that you should inform him, and by should I mean you have to unless you are going to back away, but I can not guarantee that he'll be interested in you as a potential partner and would guess that you've kind of ruined your chance.

    Live and learn.
    The friend knows we're in contact and as fair as im aware hasn't said anything (I don't think they are particularly close, just know each other through mutual friends), on the other hand he may have done, I don't know.
    Obviously if he was to start showing any interest (not sure he would) then I would tell him but I'm scared that I might leave it too late :/ Thats the thing, the more I talk to him, the more I like him but I know youre right Ive probably ruined any chances Im wondering if I should just back away to stop myself getting too attached to him but I don't want to
 
 
 
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