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    I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks. Hes gorgeous, tall, dark & handsome, has a very well paid job & treats me amazingly well. Last night we decided to get a little more intimate... Then i came across a stoma bag! Im not phased by it (im a student nurse) but i didnt make an issue of it or even flutter that i found it there.. But do i ignore it & wait for him to bring it up or do i say that its ok & its not put me off at all?

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    I think it's a bit weird that he didn't think to mention it. While having a stoma isn't a deal breaker for me, I'd certainly appreciate a bloomin' heads up because without a warning, it could be a bit freaky.

    If you want to ask him about it, then do so. I just think it's weird that he didn't tell you before hand. Just seems a weird thing to do.

    I imagine it's not something he goes around broadcasting, let him tell you in his own time.
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