New G/Friend

Known her for around 3 weeks and been seeing her for the past 1 week+ where in 5 days we spent the day and night together.
I really have grown to like her and I thought she did as well.
She had many guys calling her and stuff and we got up to allot while staying with each other.
Everything was going great until yesterday where I confronted her about the guy mate who keeps calling her everyday and she feels she has to talk to him as they was close once upon a time. He has confessed he loves her but she doesnt feel the same so they have gone distant.

Ive fallen for her and since that convo she once to slow things down and shes become very cold with me.

She doesnt want to tell no 1 about our relationship and shes very secure about her phone calls, which are mostly from guys.
I dont know what to do, but I really have grown to like her in such short time.

Reply 1

username47781

20

I'd ask her why she is being so cold on you and if she doesn'y say anything this relationship maybe a lost cause, maybe she is not over her last relationship either

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

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Carl1982

I'd ask her why she is being so cold on you and if she doesn'y say anything this relationship maybe a lost cause, maybe she is not over her last relationship either

She says she is just going through the time of the month and feels very 'crostrophobic' and it aint nothing to do with me. She assures me I ain't loosing her.

Reply 3

username47781

20

fingers crossed then thats all it is she's going through.

Reply 4

xavier2k3

1

Just give her some time and space, you said yourself that you've been spending all day and night together, it may have all happened too fast for her to digest and she just needs space. Don't go AWOL on her though! Just give her enough space. Who knows, she may be falling for you too and is wanting to get her head round it all... :rolleyes:

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regards
--marty

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xavier2k3

Just give her some time and space, you said yourself that you've been spending all day and night together, it may have all happened too fast for her to digest and she just needs space. Don't go AWOL on her though! Just give her enough space. Who knows, she may be falling for you too and is wanting to get her head round it all... :rolleyes:

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regards
--marty

she says shes fallen for me but were taking it too fast.
I guess we majorly did but now im feeling stupid and insecure (effects from last relationship).
I dont want to mess this up.

Reply 6

Tyler Durden

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Anonymous

feels very 'crostrophobic'

Sounds serious. :eek:

Reply 7

Squibs

Nah, I reckon she's playin with you. There's no girl who is that attached to guy mates... and if there is then she should be wanting to tell him about your relationship, the fact that she won't tell you about calls and that she won't tell anyone about you seems rather strange to me!

Reply 8

Sexy Plexi

5

I don't know, but I would not like to spent so much time with a new love interest so early on. That in itself would make me feel claustrophobic...and hormones will make you into a whole other person sometimes anyway.

Reply 9

vinclemesser

maybe she wont tell you about the calls cos she wants to make you jealous so that you want her more

some girls play silly games

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Anonymous #1

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vinclemesser

maybe she wont tell you about the calls cos she wants to make you jealous so that you want her more

some girls play silly games

About the calls shes told me why they call as they was close and when she had her accident he was there for her and she cant just walk away from him even though she knows he loves her and she loved him but because of how he changed when she came back from Africa, it all went wrong.

The other guy apparantly wants to marry her and has confrotned her parents but because she doesnt want to cause a problem between families shes just keeping him there in the background by texting and now and again calls (the guy lives in Australia).

Right now we was chatting and for the past 3 hours things seemed to be back to normal, then we was on the mic and I was chatting to her while she was typing on msn and she was totaly lost her own world and not chatting to me. Even as we speak shes got her mic on but shes too busy having her msn chats without any interest to me.

I heard the first month of a relationship was the honeymoon period, this is far from it lol

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Anonymous #1

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Anonymous

About the calls shes told me why they call as they was close and when she had her accident he was there for her and she cant just walk away from him even though she knows he loves her and she loved him but because of how he changed when she came back from Africa, it all went wrong.

The other guy apparantly wants to marry her and has confrotned her parents but because she doesnt want to cause a problem between families shes just keeping him there in the background by texting and now and again calls (the guy lives in Australia).

Right now we was chatting and for the past 3 hours things seemed to be back to normal, then we was on the mic and I was chatting to her while she was typing on msn and she was totaly lost her own world and not chatting to me. Even as we speak shes got her mic on but shes too busy having her msn chats without any interest to me.

I heard the first month of a relationship was the honeymoon period, this is far from it lol

lol she just heard me and she goes oh sorry I fotgot u was there and then shes gone back into her typing on msn.

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