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big mistake?

I text a guy friend a few weeks ago askin him if he wanted to do "stuff" and sent him some topless pics of myself to get him in the mood... he seemed to like them but now when I invite him over as my parents will be away he doesnt reply.. :frown: have I made a big mistake?

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Reply 1

yes.

Reply 2

maybe

Reply 3

Yeah i think you have he's obviously not interested in you, why on earth did you send him topless pictures anyway

Reply 4

well he has said he likes me and wanted to come round mine on a movie night so we could get away with doing stuff so why is he gone cold now??

Reply 5

Have you ever talked about your feelings for each other? Do you want him just for sex? IMO that was a bit of a scary poisition for him to find himself in if he never new you liked him in that way.

Reply 6

yes i think you have made a mistake. you really need to talk to him.

Reply 7

yeah he know i like him we talked about it before and he was the one who said he liked me first :confused:

Reply 8

he text me since i sent those pics saying when do u wanna meet up then cheeky :wink: but i didnt replyright away.. i just text him again a few days ago and now he's not texting back :frown:

Reply 9

He maybe hiding something or is afraid of committment.

Reply 10

maybe he's changed his mind have you told him its just sex you want maybe hes after more than that. just talk to him! :-) good luck x

Reply 11

oh gosh what if he showed his mates

Reply 12

Or mabye the delay in your reply scared him off.

Reply 13

ok i'll talk to him, cheers :smile:

Reply 14

maybe he had no credit just phone him, well u shud of though about that before you sent them x

Reply 15

yeah true good thing thats all i sent :eek:

Reply 16

dont worry he probably just wacked off your pics so hes not in the mood at the moment. Try again tomorrow.

Reply 17

Maybe he thought you were a trashy girl and not relationship material? I mean, come on girl, do you have no shame???

and supernova might well be right as to what he was using them for !

Reply 18

how do i convince him im not trashy though its not like i do it to all guys! ok he's not the only guy to see me topless cos there was a former bf and a guy who I used to send pics to and he'd send some back :p: but with this guy I just sent them cos a) I was in the mood) and b) I wanted to get him in the mood and know that I do like him! :redface:

Reply 19

I dont mind what he used them for, :wink: