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Reply 20

Anonymous
for the boys has a girl every made you cry and did it damage your self estee and confidence in anyway.

yes it has happened to me and it has damaged my confidence ever since.

girls how do percieve a boy if you was to make him cry.


Well "getting picked on" happens to everyone. Personally, it's never made me cry and anything worth noting happened in primary school.

As for crying in front of people, you might feel sorry for yourself and think that girls and other people will actually care. Usually they'll just feel bad but lose respect for you. Just the way it goes...

Reply 21

nope. wouldn't think any less of him. I would visibly see the extent of how much he cares about me. :smile:

Reply 22

supernova2
How could a girl make you cry by picking on you :/

The only time id cry if people picked on me would be if I was quite a bit younger and it was either a group of people or someone seriously intimidating (physically)

If a girl bullies you and your say 16+ just politely tell her to shut the hell up or youll smash her face in. Thanks. (I didnt say that)

Although walking away would be the normal and decent thing :smile: Remeber a lot of people tease for harmless fun or in an anger rather than to really upset or damage someone.


:eek: Hm, probably not the best way to go...

Reply 23

If a girl tries to pick on me (some have), I pick on what they're most insecure about and continue, and continue until they cry. Then pretend I had no idea they cared because they should be able to take as good as they give.

Reply 24

This all sounds a bit preschool to me. By a girl 'picking on you' what do you mean exactly? Stealing your lunch money?

Reply 25

what do you mean by crying? just like a few tears or, like full out and vocal? Because if its the former, theres nothing wrong with that, can happen to me during sad films! But if your proper crying, well just ask yourself why people who seek attention are said to be 'crying for attention' thats all it is! and yes you should be ashamed if you do this!

Reply 26

Wow, for a person - male, no less - who cries at films, you're quite insensitive. It depends what sort of "picking on" someone it is, really. It could be very hurtful and prolonged over a period of time. It could lose you friends and so on. Anything could have happened.

Reply 27

theres a diffrent between crying and a few tears... the green mile was a sad film :P

Reply 28

I made a thread and poll about this about a month ago.

I made my boyfriend cry once, said he'd never cried over a girl before. Made me see how much he felt for me.

Reply 29

Yeah, bullying can be a real downer - no matter who THEY are and who YOU are.

Have you tried turning your emotions into anger and lashing out at them (I don't neccessarily mean physically, here)? Bullies usually pick on someone who they think won't react - therefore, if you act in the least way they expect then they'll be in for a shock!

Also, a point about someone's previous post about the girl(s) losing all respect for you: Do you really WANT their respect?!!! You don't owe these bullies anything!

Reply 30

what the hell is the big deal if a bloke cries? There are certain movies I cant watch without crying but I havent cried over a relationship before... yet.

Reply 31

A girl is the only thing that has made me cry in a long time.

Reply 32

well i think its perfectly fine for guys to cry..if they did it at silly stuff like girls tho it wud get annoying. My ex when we split up...he actually split up with me but he cried, and he had never cried before not once, through the whole of our 4 year relationship. And that to me was actually pretty touching, that altho he was finishing with me he cared about me so much. at that point i didnt care about how i was feeling i wanted to hug him and make him feel better..was quite touching really us both crying knowing it was over, but still knowing we wud be great friends *sigh*

Reply 33

its fine as long as it dont get like bruce willis in Friends :P 'i just dumped one cry baby ill dump you too!'