The Student Room Group

Reply 1

Well do you like him? You need to decide how you feel before you bring anything like that up. If you like him, great! Tell him! If you don't, then let him know NICELY that you'd rather remain friends.

Reply 2

Sounds like you like him so go for it. Dont listen to people who say guys should always make the first move...

Reply 3

Have sex with him..

Reply 4

But thats just my assertive style; do whatever seems comfortable.

Reply 5

You can, but you would be risking the friendship.

Reply 6

if you like them then tell him, because it seems like he's too shy to tell you how he feels, some times us girls have got to take control of things lol

Reply 7

Would she be asking him to go out with her if she didn't want to jeapodize their friendship?

Reply 8

Sit and wait. If he likes you enough he'll crack eventually. Get your mate/his mate to (discreetly) encourage him if necessary.