Can't stop cheating, plz help

My heeeeeeead..... I didn't read your entire post it was just too confusing.

I don't think you should commit to a relationship if you know that you will end up cheating on your partner.

Stop asking people to be your girlfriend?

you seem to be a bit obsessed with nationality

**** me you must be reaaaalyy good looking.

Well, you obviously can't stop cheating long enough to paragraph your post.

I think you should just break it off with all of them and start a fresh. Have a think about what it is you really want. At the moment, I wouldn't say you're the type of guy who wants a relationship, or is in a position to commit to one. If you're with a girl, stick with the one girl instead of going out looking for more than friendship with other girls. Give the girl you choose to be with a chance and if you decide you're not happy, end it before cheating!

Respect.

If they do meet each other and your girlfriend asks you of you've been sleeping around, just say "damn right, now wait your turn"



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You shouldn't say that. With OPs track record, he'll take it the wrong way and pounce on you :P

All the girls you 'had' during that period seems to be all different nationalities... you could actually enter yourself as a Guinness world record.

Tbh I don't think you like any of them otherwise you wouldn't cheat to this extent. What you are doing is being 'a player', no offence just stating my opinion.

My advice...

stop getting into relationships and just stay friends with benefits..

Break them all off. Learn to say the phrase "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" and just have fun until you're really ready to commit.

youu = playboyy + playa

I feel so bad for all your girlfriends.

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Are you sure you are Greek?Τόσο απωθημένο με άλλες εθνικότητες???!!!

Sorry bro, but if you're kissing girls whilst your girlfriend(s) are away, that's cheating. Just pick a girl and stay with her; suppress your desire to be with more than 1 girl.

OP loves the Asian chicks


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Maybe... if I was a player.. but I really want to have a relationship..

This.
Seriously, OP, get a grip. You're a grown man, act like it. 'I can't stop cheating'; bull****. Also you don't know what the right thing to do is? Get some self control and be faithful you utter misogynist. Oh and stick with the Chinese girl, she sounds as bad as you.


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I'm going to be uncharacteristically rude here, but if you think in your train wreck of a dating history you've come across a real relationship, you're pretty deluded. You have no commitment whatsoever. In actual relationships, people don't feel the need to be in several at once, or to act as if they weren't in one. Being in a relationship, to you, is a nominal change. You are "with" someone but it doesn't actually affect you or how you behave at all - you act like a singleton.

That's pretty much what a player is. He gets with girls, pretending to be committed to them, while still actually leading a bachelor life. So yes, you are a player.

What I mean to say is, you either have no idea what actually being in a relationship entails, or if you do, and are so incapable of achieving it, you shouldn't be trying to enter one.

Hmmm. You don't properly like any of them you are simply infatuated and act immediately on that emotion. This is shown clearly by your constant assertions stating that you don't think they like you when they clearly do. You've clearly become very insecure as a result and lost your identity shown by how you keep saying that 'this is not you' and before this went 'against your ideals'. It does go against your ideals and clearly yoi dont feel like you are a player as you constantly break up with girl A to get with girl B then repeat with girl C. This leads me to believe that you are trying to get some semblance of control over your relationships, but then you find yourself questioning the relationship then cheating and the cycle repeats itself.

My advice, you need to take a break from all women ane find yourself. Get back contol over your life. Be clear what you want in a girl and simply don't settle for the next girl who takes an interest. As it is, you're confusion is going to lead to a lot of unnecessary hurt and pain. Get some certainty back in your life.

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Now I will soon go back to UK. All this time I was in Greece the bf of the chinese girl had come to the UK to visit her. However she has been texting me non-stop telling me how much she misses me and that she doesn't want to be with her bf, but with me. Now her bf went back to China, and the chinese girl pleases me to go back to her (she said that she has never missed someone again so much in the past and this has scared her, and she wants to be with me for ever). I plan to go back and sleep with her.
In the meanwhile my, 6 times ex (a greek girl that hasn't been mentioned here yet) has been chatting with me and I am trying to convince her (almost done) to come to visit me in the UK for the summer, and sleep with me (I have told her the truth: that currently I am signle, didn't have to tell her anything else and I have been never saying lies)

Thanks for the analysis. However I know what being in relationship means. Also I am not incapable of achieving it, it's the other person who doesn't achieve it.

This thread is titled "can't stop cheating". That's all I have to say.

Indeed, I have been "cheating" because the people I have been with didn't really like me.
Thank you for your help though.

And you think you're not a player, and that what you want is a relationship?

No. You want sex. Stop getting into all these "relationships" and just sleep around if that's what you want, but calling these debacles relationships is ridiculous.