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This is really Annoyeing
Ok my last relationship was just a waste of a year. I fell in love with a girl with too many problems, trust issues and worse thing was she didnt love me back and it lasted for a year.
Ive just started a new relationship. My new g/g is much more open and caring. She has had many guy friends and still has. According to her she has never had a b/f (finding it hard to belive). When I met her from the first night we had a heated time and she sure behaved as thought she had done it all before. I asked her if she had and she said 'no, its all about if u have it or not'. Anyway I trusted her and for 3 nightds continuously we had some heated moments but we refrained from having sex.
On the 4th night I realised she was not a virgin but I didnt say anything. Then the next morning from no where she just came out with 'I've had sex before with a guy from high school, just a 1 night thing off prom night'. I didnt quite understand as she told me she was a virgin then she looked and started to laugh and said she was kidding.
The main issue here is trust, im finding it difficult to trust her becuase of my last relationship and because she has this one guy shes really close to.
For the past 1 year and a half they was really close and spent their time together but the last 2 months its died down as he confessed he loved her while she was in her home country and when she returned to be with him (in a relationship) he became really cold. Prior to the confession of how he loved her, she had an accident and in that period of time they became evry close and according to her nothing happened apart from a kiss on the head from him.
SO after she got back home (when he confessed he loved her), the guy gave her the cold shoulder and didnt seem to show how the same side he once did. Now 2 motnhs later they still text, email or talk nealry every day.
She told me she doesnt view him like that anymore and to trust her nothing could happen. I belive her but then today she went cinema and she didnt call after she came out so I called her from the my local pool club and she told me shes at home now and the guy had called her to take her shopping and then they are going for a drink.
She knows how edgy im about it but I told her ill get used to it, but the fact shes meeting him still makes me feel annoyed as if theres nothing going on why do they talk so much. Yeah ive heard of best friends but this guy confessed he loved her.
I told her when she told me 'ok, call me when youve sorted the stuff out', as she was suppose to talk about them to not talking again.
I doubt she will call me today now and if she does it will be in the early hours of the morning.
Im suppose to be meeting her tommorow in her town (its a long distance relationship). I have a good mind in just not going tommorow if she doesnt call tonight, I know she has made me aware of nothing can happen but it pisses me off shes meeting the guy that loves her.
Ive just started a new relationship. My new g/g is much more open and caring. She has had many guy friends and still has. According to her she has never had a b/f (finding it hard to belive). When I met her from the first night we had a heated time and she sure behaved as thought she had done it all before. I asked her if she had and she said 'no, its all about if u have it or not'. Anyway I trusted her and for 3 nightds continuously we had some heated moments but we refrained from having sex.
On the 4th night I realised she was not a virgin but I didnt say anything. Then the next morning from no where she just came out with 'I've had sex before with a guy from high school, just a 1 night thing off prom night'. I didnt quite understand as she told me she was a virgin then she looked and started to laugh and said she was kidding.
The main issue here is trust, im finding it difficult to trust her becuase of my last relationship and because she has this one guy shes really close to.
For the past 1 year and a half they was really close and spent their time together but the last 2 months its died down as he confessed he loved her while she was in her home country and when she returned to be with him (in a relationship) he became really cold. Prior to the confession of how he loved her, she had an accident and in that period of time they became evry close and according to her nothing happened apart from a kiss on the head from him.
SO after she got back home (when he confessed he loved her), the guy gave her the cold shoulder and didnt seem to show how the same side he once did. Now 2 motnhs later they still text, email or talk nealry every day.
She told me she doesnt view him like that anymore and to trust her nothing could happen. I belive her but then today she went cinema and she didnt call after she came out so I called her from the my local pool club and she told me shes at home now and the guy had called her to take her shopping and then they are going for a drink.
She knows how edgy im about it but I told her ill get used to it, but the fact shes meeting him still makes me feel annoyed as if theres nothing going on why do they talk so much. Yeah ive heard of best friends but this guy confessed he loved her.
I told her when she told me 'ok, call me when youve sorted the stuff out', as she was suppose to talk about them to not talking again.
I doubt she will call me today now and if she does it will be in the early hours of the morning.
Im suppose to be meeting her tommorow in her town (its a long distance relationship). I have a good mind in just not going tommorow if she doesnt call tonight, I know she has made me aware of nothing can happen but it pisses me off shes meeting the guy that loves her.
Reply 2
Your inability to spell 'annoying' annoys me.
Reply 3
Phonicsdude
Your inability to spell 'annoying' annoys me.
I dont want to challenege this guy if shes 2nd hands good and shes been lieing about it all this time.
This isn't a test forum, jeez let up on him.
To the OP, the girl is obviously lying to you, she said she slept with some1 to test the water, if you took it well she would not have taken it back. That is what every 1 does. If the person your telling something meaningful too takes it badly, just say your joking.
Also you said you've been messed about prior to this relationship, yet it seems your just gonna get messed about again. It's far from a hassle free relationship so if you don't want to be taken on a ride again, end it.
Good luck
To the OP, the girl is obviously lying to you, she said she slept with some1 to test the water, if you took it well she would not have taken it back. That is what every 1 does. If the person your telling something meaningful too takes it badly, just say your joking.
Also you said you've been messed about prior to this relationship, yet it seems your just gonna get messed about again. It's far from a hassle free relationship so if you don't want to be taken on a ride again, end it.
Good luck
Reply 7
Evil-Tuna
what the devil? what does that have to do with spelling?
ok she told me before she left she was going to meet him for 40mins no longer its been 2 hours and ive called her once in that time and she rejected my call and didnt call back. I texted her now saying 'r u home?' and no reply. Shall I forget going to her ends tommorow, if she was serious about me she would atleast reply or answer the call and say they are still talking.
Reply 8
Anonymous
ok she told me before she left she was going to meet him for 40mins no longer its been 2 hours and ive called her once in that time and she rejected my call and didnt call back. I texted her now saying 'r u home?' and no reply. Shall I forget going to her ends tommorow, if she was serious about me she would atleast reply or answer the call and say they are still talking.
That still has nothing to do with spelling. You don't have to quote anyone randomly to update us on your woes, it makes the thread confusing!
Anyhoo I think that trust makes part of the foundations of a relationship. If that isn't there, why are you wasting your time on yet another trustless relationship?
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