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for every 1 beautiful black woman there are 7 not so attractive black woman. 1:7.
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(Original post by superduper9)
Beyonce. Halle Berry. Rihanna. Christina Milian. Regardless of his colour, which guy will say no?!

Other than celebrities and for us common folk, there are plenty of good looking black women with really nice personalities - as a guy, that's all I look for. Race shouldn't be a barrier. People are free to like who they want! Don't stress over it mate!
All of them yes please!
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This topic makes me laugh I know black girls who will only date white men (had enough of black men and their "player" ways). I also know caucasian girls who only want black men (apparently because they are bad boys) so ppl do have their preferences even though its for silly reasons.
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Op, why don't you contact those black girls you see on those websites with the "obsession" with white men and ask them because only they know the answer, not us. Seriously, what do you get from asking this question here, on a site that has a clear hatred for black females?

And when did Beyonce, Rihanna, C.Millian etc become mixed race? Beyonce's mum is Creole ( black, white & native mix) her dad is black, Rihanna's mum is black here dad a mixture of black and white, Christina's parents are black cubans or Afro Cubans. The parents although some are mixed still share the same race (black) with the other "full black" parent. These women are multiracial black women through slave rape like a lot of us from the Caribbean and the Americas. Me for example my dad is multiracial Puerto Rican and multiracial Dominican and my mother is African. Although i look mixed, im still black because of my parents shared African ancestry. Did you people know that black latinos exist? Did you know a very large number of latinos especially Puerto Rico, Dominican Republic, Cuba, Panama, Colombia, Brazil are of African descent or to a greater extent African and Euro (specifically Portuguese and Spanish) mix or a mix of African, American indian, and European mix?

And please stop this generalisations. You cannot honestly tell me a black girl from the UK is the same as one in Africa or America, the Caribbean, Latin America etc. And just to add, not all black people are dark skinned. Some of us are light skin, but you people like to call us mixed race (lol), when in reality we are multiracial but still black.

I personally am not attracted to a group who until recently considered me and people like me to be subhuman.. but i digress. :rolleyes:
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(Original post by Adenosine)
for every 1 beautiful black woman there are 7 not so attractive black woman. 1:7.
where did this crazy ratio come from? :lolwut:
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Your forgetting Nicole Scherzinger...garrrr!!
Ah fair play my friend! My mistake, "Shirtswzinger" is hot!!!
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Ah fair play my friend! My mistake, "Shirtswzinger" is hot!!!
She's not black. She's Hawaiian, Russian and Filipino.
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(Original post by Tai Ga)
where did this crazy ratio come from? :lolwut:
Made it up. haha
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They can't chose what they do or do not find attractive
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I've not really noticed that on dating sites myself, and did used to use one, but then again I suppose, why will I be looking at black women's (or any women's) profiles anyway if I'm seeking men to date? OK, I'm a black woman and I will admit that I probably have a slight preference for white men too, but I put that down to always living in areas where white people are the majority. I would never say or write anywhere that I only want to date white men, because I do actually find all races attractive anyway, and why limit yourself, you know?

But I have to say that I have noticed quite a bit on tumblr and stuff quite a lot of "white man worship" by black women, some of it a bit cringeworthy tbh. OK, I am in a BWWM relationship myself so whatever, but that doesn't mean I find all white men amazing or anything - plenty of them have been total dicks to me. I just really like this particular guy I'm dating, who just happens to be white. Preferences are fine and all, but when I observe some people's, it does sometimes seem to border on fetishism. Instead of generalizing whole groups of people as being a certain something, I prefer to just look at each person I come across as an individual in their own right, regardless of what race or whatever they belong to. That's just my tuppence worth.
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Hmm really? Then again I wouldn't be surprised if the western cultural beauty standards and overexposure of such standards in the media do have an effect on racial preferences.
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(Original post by Octohedral)
Maybe you should leave London occasionally.
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good one
Nah, he doesn't need to leave London, just go to Bromley - it's where I grew up and it's pretty much 85% white, and I definitely feel like a minority as a black person there :p:
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She's not black. She's Hawaiian, Russian and Filipino.
Ah I see! Out of interest though, which box would she tick for ethnicity?
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Ah I see! Out of interest though, which box would she tick for ethnicity?
Hmm. I'd say she looks more on the filipino/hawaiian side.

Not really sure though
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If you are on a dating site you put preferences, as you are looking for someone. As long as it is a positive statement, the preferences you have instead of those who don't, then I see it as OK.
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(Original post by MorenaChicka)
Op, why don't you contact those black girls you see on those websites with the "obsession" with white men and ask them because only they know the answer, not us. Seriously, what do you get from asking this question here, on a site that has a clear hatred for black females?

And when did Beyonce, Rihanna, C.Millian etc become mixed race? Beyonce's mum is Creole ( black, white & native mix) her dad is black, Rihanna's mum is black here dad a mixture of black and white, Christina's parents are black cubans or Afro Cubans. The parents although some are mixed still share the same race (black) with the other "full black" parent. These women are multiracial black women through slave rape like a lot of us from the Caribbean and the Americas. Me for example my dad is multiracial Puerto Rican and multiracial Dominican and my mother is African. Although i look mixed, im still black because of my parents shared African ancestry. Did you people know that black latinos exist? Did you know a very large number of latinos especially Puerto Rico, Dominican Republic, Cuba, Panama, Colombia, Brazil are of African descent or to a greater extent African and Euro (specifically Portuguese and Spanish) mix or a mix of African, American indian, and European mix?

And please stop this generalisations. You cannot honestly tell me a black girl from the UK is the same as one in Africa or America, the Caribbean, Latin America etc. And just to add, not all black people are dark skinned. Some of us are light skin, but you people like to call us mixed race (lol), when in reality we are multiracial but still black.

I personally am not attracted to a group who until recently considered me and people like me to be subhuman.. but i digress. :rolleyes:
I will even add that some black women are mixed and ARE NOT MULTIRACIAL my mother is full Nigerian and has light/fair skin she is lighter than Obama along with some of her siblings.

I wish western Europeans and Americans along with ignorant blac people would stop assuming you have to be very dark skinned to be full black or African this is a racist myth to destroy black unity and identity.
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Hi, you guy are really funny I am a black girl 25yrs old who likes white guys I also have a mix racial son who I love to the moon an back Ive always liked white guys even my mum knew I would of ended up being and having kids with a white guy/man from when I was about 7 anyway this is why most black woman/girls are going with and wanna be with white guy its because the black man thinks us black woman are ugly and they prefer white girls in everyway but the thing I just don't understand is that they teach white woman/girls how to cook like us talk like us and even act like us but they don't like black woman/girls I aint saying all back man are like this but most of them are and I would like to know why????? so now you know why black woman are on dating site looking for ONLY WHITE MAN................
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I agree 100% it's just my personal preference.
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I'm white myself and even though I'm in favour of inter-racial relationships, when I'm viewing girls on okCupid/POF, a lot of the black girls demand, not prefer, demand that they want to be contacted by white guys only.

It's a considerable amount of black girls saying they want white guys and I've noticed this since last winter.
No offence but these girls are wasting their time limiting themselves to one race. Plus what I've seen on TSR and from my mates, white guys don't really go for black girls.

Sorry to bring this "black girl" malarkey but I had to create a thread on this. I was going to do it yesterday but I thought no, leave it. Yet today, I've seen more so had to discuss it.
Nothing wrong with black/asain guys jeez :confused:

Healthy clean discussion!

okcupid attracts a somewhat more sophisticated/intellectual crowd than the likes of Tinder/pof ...etc

I have noticed that the more sophisticated/intellectual a black woman is, the more likely she is to prefer white men over black men
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