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Reply 1

don't worry i'm in the same position!

Reply 2

No big deal. I have a few friends in the same situation and it's really not an issue. Don't feel that you have to do something just because your mates are doing it.

Reply 3

Just chill, you will eventually. And when you do, you'll see how overrated it is.

Seriously, I was in the same position, and very worried. Now that I'm older though (19) I see how there was nothing to worry about.

Reply 4

Just chill, you will eventually. And when you do, you'll see how overrated it is.

Seriously, I was in the same position, and very worried. Now that I'm older though (19) I see how there was nothing to worry about.

Reply 5

Enjoy it. Whilst your friends are worrying about seeing their girlfriends and buying them presents, about possably getting her pregnant, her parents hating them, her going in moods and her friends...you can relax.

It'll happen. It's not unusual, I know alot guys and girls in the same position. Its nothing to worry about

Reply 6

Damm bloody anonymous button didn't work. No worries, I was only testing. Sorry to mods for double post though :s-smilie:.

Reply 7

Anonymous
well im 17 years old , in college atm.
and well. ive never had a girlfriend , or even been kissed.

im worried since everyone i know has had multiple girlfriends already.
opinions?


Im 18 never been kissed, never had a girl friend and do I care





YES :biggrin:

Reply 8

There's no point being in a relationship just for the sake of it. :p: Just enjoy the freedom of singledom, until the right girl for you comes along.

Reply 9

rele not that bad tbh. dont worry about it, just get started now while you still have your youth :wink:

Reply 10

im a gal, and im in the same position as you....never had a bf, never been kissed, am 17, in college...but DONT WORRY i have lots of girl and guy mates in the same position as us. just think now... we wont have stuff to worry out over exams!! lol. and we have missed out on stress when we were younger too. yup, i know weve obv missed the good bits too. doh. but i never found the right guy b4.
yeeeeeeah, i do worry too about how ppl will react at uni when i tell them...
but its not like everyone else is realllly gooood at seexxxxx and then there is us. lol. lots like us, and lots know justsimply wont mind!!
take care xxx

Reply 11

im a gal, and im in the same position as you....never had a bf, never been kissed, am 17, in college...but DONT WORRY i have lots of girl and guy mates in the same position as us. just think now... we wont have stuff to worry out over exams!! lol. and we have missed out on stress when we were younger too. yup, i know weve obv missed the good bits too. doh. but i never found the right guy b4.
yeeeeeeah, i do worry too about how ppl will react at uni when i tell them...
but its not like everyone else is realllly gooood at seexxxxx and then there is us. lol. lots like us, and lots who just simply wont mind!!
take care xxx

Reply 12

you're only 17, seriously, you have nothing to worry about! i think the main thing is to remember that you're definately not alone =) i was 18 when i was first kissed (mixture of reasons, really because i didn't want to be lol) and never had a serious serious bf. things just happen at different rates for everyone. like for example, by the time i left secondary school there were over a dozen girls pregnant for the first or even second time and no, almost 3 yrs later, most ofthe ppl i went to school with have children or having them, are sleeping around, getting married etc etc. but tbh, i wouldn't want to be in that position right now at all!! you have it all to come, you don't need to rush everything! plus, do u really just wanna get laid (if u do, trust me there's girls around everywhere for that) or do u want a relationship? there's a big difference and the latter is worth waiting for in my opinion. plus it's not like your life sucks because you're not in a relationship, there's way more to life than that =) k, im done rambling! xXx

Reply 13

Anonymous
well im 17 years old , in college atm.
and well. ive never had a girlfriend , or even been kissed.

im worried since everyone i know has had multiple girlfriends already.
opinions?

Aww dont worry sweetie...that means your not an jerk yet :smile: Ill be ur girlfriend

Reply 14

ps: sorry about double post.

just thought of this too... i wouldnt mind if my bf was then same .. had never had a gf or anything...and would def make no difference as to whether wed be friends or not!! really wouldnt matter to me. :biggrin:

Reply 15

ooo i agree with at least you're not a jerk!!

Reply 16

Anonymous
well im 17 years old , in college atm.
and well. ive never had a girlfriend , or even been kissed.

im worried since everyone i know has had multiple girlfriends already.
opinions?


Fear not. Notice how they have had multiple girlfriends and multiple break-ups. Would you like multiple break ups? hell no, bet not.

Just wait till a really nice girl comes along and you wont ever experience the dreaded break up:biggrin:

Reply 17

Im in the same position, but I know tomorrow can bring anything. Think about it if you have one girlfriend you are more likely to value the relationship, than a guy who has had lots. Therefore you will have a better relationship. Either way ROCK ON!!!

Reply 18

I'm 18 and i've never had a real long-term boyfriend. It does bother me sometimes but don't worry about it, or be embarassed.
I go to a girls school so it is harder to meet guys - a lot of it is about your situation, it's not a reflection on you or of the future i'm sure!

Reply 19

i know someone like you, he is 19 though, and i'm pretty sure he is gay..

i wouldn't worry about it though. when you find someone, then it will be all the more worth it!