you're only 17, seriously, you have nothing to worry about! i think the main thing is to remember that you're definately not alone =) i was 18 when i was first kissed (mixture of reasons, really because i didn't want to be lol) and never had a serious serious bf. things just happen at different rates for everyone. like for example, by the time i left secondary school there were over a dozen girls pregnant for the first or even second time and no, almost 3 yrs later, most ofthe ppl i went to school with have children or having them, are sleeping around, getting married etc etc. but tbh, i wouldn't want to be in that position right now at all!! you have it all to come, you don't need to rush everything! plus, do u really just wanna get laid (if u do, trust me there's girls around everywhere for that) or do u want a relationship? there's a big difference and the latter is worth waiting for in my opinion. plus it's not like your life sucks because you're not in a relationship, there's way more to life than that =) k, im done rambling! xXx