Why do I not want to let go?

I recently discovered that the girl that I thought was for me, is infact not for me. I don't think we could have a proper relationship.

I've liked her for a couple of years but nothings ever happened.

a) Why have I suddenly decided against the idea?

b) Why do I not like to admit what I'm thinking? It hurts me to say 'she's not the one for me'.

I'm not ruling it out all together, but just for now....

Reply 1

strawberry

people change, and their preferences change. it's completely normal. people don't completely dismiss their old ideas, but they do change their preferences no matter how slightly. yeah it does suck when you realise that "she ain't the one for me" but there's always someone out there for us all. If not her, someone else. :smile: