i need serious help plzzzzzzz

guys plzz i mean plzzz help me chicks seem to run away from me ok about me ill be honest iam a fairly goodlooking guy.But when it comes to chicks iam a bit dumb.Physically they r attracted to me but when it comes to having a proper conversation iam at sea please i need advice suggesstions anything. thank u

Reply 1

The Mudman

First of all, I'd suggest not calling them 'chicks'. Or 'birds'. At least not within ear-shot.

Just try and start off with a joke about your being nervous, and not knowing what to say. Then you'll both relax, and the conversation might flow more easily. Ask about her. Try to talk about yourself as little as possible, unless she asks you a direct question. But don't make it look like you're trying to hide anything. Favour the conversation so that she is talking more than you, is what I mean.

Just pic random topics. If you get really stuck, be spontaneous. "Ever been wind-surfing?" "No." "Me neither... Well, that was a crap topic..." But it'll get you both thinking about what you can talk about, and if she has been wind-surfing, you're in!

Most importantly, just relax. Don't worry too much about silences. The more you stress, the harder it will be for you to think of something to say. Just go with the flow.

:cool:

Reply 2

ImperceptibleNinja

In terms of being attractive by what you type, use more commas, full stops, and say 'please' rather than 'plz'.

What kind of things do you generally talk about with girls? Try asking them questions - not ones which can be answered with 'yes', 'no, or '14.5'. Listen to their answers, and see what kind of things you have in common, then follow up those topics. Smile a bit, and look at them [as you are talking - don't just suddenly stop and gaze at them with a great big grin on your face... :smile:

]. Oh yes, and look at their eyes/face, not their boobs/bum/legs.

You don't use shockingly suggestive chat-up lines, do you? Just checking. They can be funny, but aren't particularly convincing.

Meh, you asked for advice from guys... whoops... sorry... :rolleyes:

Reply 3

The Canadian

Dude, as Mudman said, don't call them chicks or birds, unless they are a biker chick or a bird boarder, then it's fine!!

Just start off doing something funny and wild is a good one I've found. The one I like is asking girls to hold my drink whilst I breakdance at nightclubs. Do something like that, and it'll be all good.

Reply 4

dogtag9

why, do you release fire from you mouth like a dragon? or does you mouth release sperm like willy?lol, chicks/birds seem to be scared of both,might be the reason they run. aint the sperm thick enough to trap them when they run? if all the advice they give dont work, then be aggressive, say b**** come over here.lol

PS, wish id do this anonymous but who cares.