I was recently talking to a close friend who is currently sitting her A-Levels who was umm and ahhhing about taking a gap year, and thought I should share the pep talk I gave her.
I am currently on a gap year, working abroad. It is the best thing I have ever done. I really cannot recommend anything more strongly than taking a gap year and doing something worthwhile with it. You have the whole of your life ahead of you, for many this is the only window where you will not be studying, working or sucking on your false teeth in a nursing home. If you work abroad and find something worthwhile then it can cost you nothing. If you are strong (something I am not unfortunately) and manage to save, you will even EARN money while doing something you will remember forever. If money isn't an issue, then travel, travel, travel. Luckily my "work" as an au pair has taken me to a location I personally find idyllic. There is so much diversity where I live, it is so different to the UK and although I miss home, I will miss the openness and ambiance of where I currently live. However if I could take a second gap year in order to just travel, I would... however university and fear of losing the last of my remaining braincells that actually hold something "worthwhile" stops me.
What negatives can happen? Personally... I know you hear crap about "finding yourself"... but I can honestly say that has happened. I have met amazing people from all over the world, built close relationships with people completely different to those I already have... and obviously had a ton of fun along the way. I am much happier and confidant within myself and I feel much more prepared to go it alone at uni. I have discovered things about myself, what I want from life and what I don't. What I personally find important. It has really motivated me to work harder too... I actually MISS studying and realise how worthwhile it is now, more than before.
I will be returning home in 2 months... and even thinking about that is making me well up. I don't want to leave. The people, the place... I am extremely excited about university, don't get me wrong... but taking a gap year has been one of the best decisions I ever made. I can't even begin to describe how happy I am I decided to just say "**** it" to myself and go against parental pressures and the head of school making me feel like lazy bum... and go for this anyway.
For some background info, I come from a normal family on what would probably be classed as below average income. You do not need to be rich and wealthy to take a gap year.
You really do have just one life... you don't need to rush into things. One year of enjoyment and personal development is not going to kill you. Taking a gap year in between college and university... just do it.