I can't cope...

...with not being in a relationship. I'm not a needy person but I like having a special someone to hug and just hang round with. I've got great friends but I don't get the same feeling from hanging out with them as I do with a boy.

I've always had boyfriends, since I was about 14, but recently I've been having no luck with guys.

Anyone got any advice on how to get over this? To learn to be happy by myself? Thanks x

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

Thanks domakesaythink, guess i just gotta distract myself!

Reply 2

teh_samby

That's my problem too, I hate not being in a relationship. I'd say find something else to fill your time with, like DMST said, and remember that you want a guy...we don't need them as such :smile:

Hang in there.

Reply 3

clouddweller

i've always had the opposite problem :redface:

I find im very independent and find it very hard to give up that independence; i like to think for myself and its always been hard to work myself around someone else (essentially i guess its selfishness :rolleyes:

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i think part of it though, was just not being interested; everything's been much easier with my current boyfriend; it all seems to 'fit' if you know what i mean.
it could be the same with the next guy though, i think you have to focus on the here and now; if being in a relationship is what makes you happy then keep your eyes open, but while you're not, enjoy being you for a while; make split second decisions and love that you dont have to consult someone else, or flirt ridiculously with every guy you meet that you remotely like the look of; being single can be great, make it work for you :smile:

Reply 4

pink_lucie

me too and when i do finally meet someone they turn out to be such idiots :frown:

just hold out, and socalise ALOT

Reply 5

Note

You aren't nearly 16 by any chance?

Reply 6

jazznaz

Definitely try and find an immersive hobby of some sort. I find that I can while away hours playing guitar or writing or taking photographs, and that would always distract me from anything and everything else in the world. :smile:

Reply 7