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I really like him...

Theres this guy i liked for now... 4 years... (since year 10 and now in year 13)...
He's really nice to me and all and i tend to tell him everything etc.. and at times he'd tell me thing about him like.. whats going on in his family.. etc etc.

I really like him cos when im unhappy i'd txt him and he'd reply and somehow always cheers me up again... or when i have a decision to make but i dunt know whats right i'd ask him and he'd tell me what i should pick.. or if he was in my situation at he'd decision he'd make.

In school we Hardly ever talk.. or even if we see each other sometimes we just smile or we just walk past each other pretending we didn't see each other but online or txt we talk for ages and ages about anything.

I know he's leaving for swiss soon for uni... (somtime in july) and even on the last day of skl he asked to take a photo with me which would normally NEVER HAPPEN. But recently he's been really weird... the way he talks etc.. as if he doesn't care much anymore or he thinks im annoying. Last time i msged him about something he said... "I dont wanna make the decision for you" but followed by " because i dont want u to regret"...he seemed fine there.. but then he does all these weird stuff he never does like "DUDE lets hear ur stuff" which he NEVER ever says...he still tries to cheer me up but his attitude is soo different.. When my friend told him i liked him behind my back (which i got told yesterday) his reaction was "why are u telling me this [name of friend]" " I didn't need to know this" which he would never do in the past... hes been quite rude to me aswell...

whats going on? He used to really care.. like he sent me a msg really randomly once when he saw a poster of an idol i liked just to tell me he saw them.><#

<sorry for the long post>
Reply 1
I'm guessing in his own little way he is trying to say that he'll miss you. it seems like he might be trying to widen the gap between you so that saying goodbye isn't the hardest thing in the world. on the other hand i could be entirely wrong and it could be something else.

if you want my advice you should ask him if anythings bothering him and tell him how much you'll miss him and maybe that you like him?

I dont know the situation though so you should def use your intuition and go with it. you'll really regret doing nothing in the long run otherwise.

good luck with whatever you end up trying
Reply 2
The world runs off sexual desire - you two are friends because of subconscious sexual tendencies towards each other in the name of 'friendship' - you'd s*** each other if you could - given the circumstances.

Every single aspect of the world is a product of sexual desire one way or another.
Astor
Every single aspect of the world is a product of sexual desire one way or another.


How about your relationship with your mother.....?*


*Please note: This isn't an insult- just an example...
Reply 4
Biffy Clyro
How about your relationship with your mother.....?*


*Please note: This isn't an insult- just an example...

Refere to Sigmund Freud - there's your answer.
luvberry
Theres this guy i liked for now... 4 years... (since year 10 and now in year 13)...
He's really nice to me and all and i tend to tell him everything etc.. and at times he'd tell me thing about him like.. whats going on in his family.. etc etc.

I really like him cos when im unhappy i'd txt him and he'd reply and somehow always cheers me up again... or when i have a decision to make but i dunt know whats right i'd ask him and he'd tell me what i should pick.. or if he was in my situation at he'd decision he'd make.

In school we Hardly ever talk.. or even if we see each other sometimes we just smile or we just walk past each other pretending we didn't see each other but online or txt we talk for ages and ages about anything.

I know he's leaving for swiss soon for uni... (somtime in july) and even on the last day of skl he asked to take a photo with me which would normally NEVER HAPPEN. But recently he's been really weird... the way he talks etc.. as if he doesn't care much anymore or he thinks im annoying. Last time i msged him about something he said... "I dont wanna make the decision for you" but followed by " because i dont want u to regret"...he seemed fine there.. but then he does all these weird stuff he never does like "DUDE lets hear ur stuff" which he NEVER ever says...he still tries to cheer me up but his attitude is soo different.. When my friend told him i liked him behind my back (which i got told yesterday) his reaction was "why are u telling me this [name of friend]" " I didn't need to know this" which he would never do in the past... hes been quite rude to me aswell...

whats going on? He used to really care.. like he sent me a msg really randomly once when he saw a poster of an idol i liked just to tell me he saw them.><#

<sorry for the long post>


hey it kinda seems to me that he either likes you or at least cares for you and wants to make things seasier for you and him by getting some distance before he's leaving.. it sems like he's trying to spare you the pain of missing him.. which is a really sweet thing to do if you think about it (and if that's really the case)..
on the other hand maybe he's just freaked out by what your friend told him.. maybe he never saw you in that light and now that he knows you do, he's trying to get some distance.. (AH, GUYS!!)

i think the best thing to do is to talk to him and tell him you care about him and will miss him and all his help when he leaves.. see his reaction and decide from that which one of the above situation he's in..
GOOD LUCK:wink:
Reply 6
woeful_infatuation

on the other hand maybe he's just freaked out by what your friend told him.. maybe he never saw you in that light and now that he knows you do, he's trying to get some distance.. (AH, GUYS!!)

i think the best thing to do is to talk to him and tell him you care about him and will miss him and all his help when he leaves.. see his reaction and decide from that which one of the above situation he's in..
GOOD LUCK:wink:


hes been weird b4 my friend told him... ever since the last day of skl hes been sorta weird...><

yeah mayb i should talk to him.. but everytime i ask if anythings wrong hes just no.. nothings bothering me.. or no im not mad dont worry.. akk he confuses the hell outa me sometimes
hmmm your best bet is still to talk to him.. and do it asap.. before he leaves it might not even be you, maybe he has something going on in his life that has brought about the change in his behaviour.. he might be distant to other people too but you just havent noticed yet.. just be optimistic and i'm sure if you tell him you'll work it out..