www.bmezine.com has lots of tattoo pics and stories on, i found it v helpful when researching before mine =)
i guess pain is relative. i got a tattoo on the inside of my left wrist about a month ago. i was told because it was near the bone on over tendons it would hurt like hell-it honestly didn't...and i wouldn't have any worries admitting to it hurting if it had =P i guess the best advice i got on the pain aspect was "it will hurt, but not as much as you expect"...there was actually a sign up in the parlour saying "yes they hurt!" lol. hmm if you're getting it on a place that gunna have a lot of movement like a joint, they will fade quicker than others due to *wear and tear* like most wrist tattoos (90%) need touchups, i actually want some of the lines going over on mine. but i agree, if u look after it it will fade less quickly, like remember to cover it with lotion in the sun etc. the redness on mine hadnt faded with in an hr, it barely scabbed and healed realllly quickly so i think it's definately important to research your artist and the piece! i personally LOVE tattoos, as long as they mean something =) i guess there's still bits of the stereotypes around about them only being for bikers lol. hmm i'm done babblying now, good luck! pc xXx