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advice please...

my ex and I were together for nearly 3 years,we were engaged. in that time we've split up so many times, and got back together, but nothing has ever changed. we had such a complicated relationship, we are two very similar people. i ended the relationship because he gave me no choice (choosing to spend time with friends over me all the time!) we've been split up for over a month (longest time we've been apart) and now he's asking me to get back together, he's sayin he's changed and we can make it work. since we've been split up we've both been seeing other people. i just dont know what to do! i love him so much, but is it worth getting back and maybe getting hurt again? sorry for the rant, just needed to get it off my chest! thanks in advance xxx
Reply 1
If you're only going to break up again, I wouldn't bother getting back together.
Reply 2
Tbh honest I'm not sure how much he could have changed in a month. He may have had time to reflect on how his behaviour affected your relationship but this doesn't mean he's changed for good. I would give it some more time before deciding to get involved again, but seeing as you were engaged and seem to have such strong feelings for him, it seems like it would worth working at.
Reply 3
just an update! i've told him that i do want to give it another go, but i've got alot going on this month with exams, work etc so i'd prefer it if we stayed friends for the rest of the month and take it from there. that will give us more time to realise where we were going wrong and if its worth giving it another go! thanks for the replies:smile: xx