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hey, ive met a guy on saturday ive just got out of a long term relationship (10mnths) so yeh this guy came up to me, started to dancing after a kiss, he told me he wanted to meet up with me so i gave him my number. Then he went away to talk to his mate, after a couple of hrs he came bk then my friend was by her self so i said "excuse" me to go with her. When i turned arnd he then went away. On that sunday he called me to say "when shall we meet up?" i said im not sure due to exams, then he said ok "well il call u after exams, if not then u kno?!". After that, i felt bad so i text him bk saying "im free next week, whether u can wait or not its up to u x" then he text me bk today which is a monday to say "il call u next weekend". I dont understand him, i thought guys text u to get to know u ask u questions and stuff, he hasn't. I started to panic thinking that he could be some weirdo so i text him saying "i thought i shld get to kno u more, instead of just knowing ur name, where u from? do u work or go to college etc?" he hasn't replied..
shall i leave him?!?!

Reply 1

he is about 21! i just dont understand what he is playing at! it doesn't make sense. kinda weird!

Reply 2

Some guys dont like getting to know people through phones and msn etc. He probably just wants to see you and talk normally to you

Otherwise he just thinks your good looking and wants to sleep with you asap.

Reply 3

Difficult one!

Best thing to do is just ring him up and ask him when he wants to meet up. Take it from there. If he gives you a definate date, it must mean that he wants to meet up with you. If not then leave things.