whats a girl to do?

i dont know what to do at the mo.. with exam stress and that i shouldnt really be thinking bout guys.. but its all im thinking about..

heres is the problem:

when i was with my boyfriend (now my ex) i liked this guy.. and i was willing to give up everything to be with him even though he had a girlfriend.. and so i did.. and now he's split with her and we could get together but now.. things arent the same.. he's really jelous and i just dont think i can deal with it.. he always wants to buy me things and always wants to talk..

admitedly i was exactly the same at the beginning.. and now im starting to think im the kind of girl who like the chase and then when i get it i dont want it anymore??

what should i do?

Reply 1

1013

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Tell this guy you are putting things on hold until after your exams then doen't take his calls / pick up texts. It doesn't sound like things are working out that well and you shouldn't be wasting revising time worrying about this relationship. Exams are way too important. You can spend the rest of the summer having relationship issues!

Reply 2

supernova2

11

The jealousy thing may be a pain but itll probably get better.

Im still at odds with this tho;

amie436

.. he always wants to buy me things and always wants to talk..

Girls

maybe you just need to find someone really special who makes the relationship as exciting for you as the chase.

Reply 3

Redefined

13

Its a case of the forbidden fruit I gather.

Reply 4

Er00

The chase is always more exciting, but the relationship that leads on should be good in a different way, it may not have the same excitement that the chase had, but you should be happy together nonetheless!

Reply 5

guitar_chick

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am i the only one that abosolutly hates the chase??? run the risk of embaressment, being let down and making a dogs ear of things!!! at least when your with someone seriously your less worried about what they think...

and as for the getting lots of presents... dont complain... and if it really gets to you buy him something back or try telling him - i did that to my bf and now he only gets me the occasional small think which is thoughtful but not too expensive so i dont feel bad *dreams*

Reply 6

Anthonyjm71

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Er00

The chase is always more exciting, but the relationship that leads on should be good in a different way, it may not have the same excitement that the chase had, but you should be just as happy together nonetheless!

Yes exactly totally agree!! :smile:

Reply 7

Audacious

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guitar_chick

am i the only one that abosolutly hates the chase??? run the risk of embaressment, being let down and making a dogs ear of things!!! at least when your with someone seriously your less worried about what they think...

and as for the getting lots of presents... dont complain... and if it really gets to you buy him something back or try telling him - i did that to my bf and now he only gets me the occasional small think which is thoughtful but not too expensive so i dont feel bad *dreams*

no your not!!! I hate it too!

1013

Tell this guy you are putting things on hold until after your exams then doen't take his calls / pick up texts. It doesn't sound like things are working out that well and you shouldn't be wasting revising time worrying about this relationship. Exams are way too important. You can spend the rest of the summer having relationship issues!

I agree, your exams are for you...that might sound selfish but Its your future, and no guy (or girl for that matter guys) should distract you from the exams. they are the most important thing right now.

supernova2

Im still at odds with this tho;

amie436

he always wants to buy me things and always wants to talk..

Girls

LOL well haven't you learnt yet that wot eva u guys do, we'll find fault?

maybe you just need to find someone really special who makes the relationship as exciting for you as the chase.

I agree, you need to find someone who is more then just a chase...then the relationship will work

whats a girl to do?

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