The Student Room Group

Reply 1

anyone?

Reply 2

im sure shes still your friend shes probably just distancing herself for a little while to that her bf dosnt think ure 2 close together.
if you went out with her for a year then yep it would be natural to care about her still and possible get a little jealous

Reply 3

I think it's natural to feel jealous, you were together for so long. She probably didn't tell you because it's a new thing and she doesn't want the ex getting involved. Even though you're still friends, you'll always be her ex. She probably just didn't know how or when to tell you.

Reply 4


Yeah its natural. When your with someone for a longish time then you're bound to be affected by it, after all its a weird feeling. At least she didn't call you up and tell you not only she'd met someone else but they were engaged too! :eek: my ex did that, thankfully for him he's moved to america...

If your still friends then maybe ask (but not in a confronting way) or let her tell you in her own time. She's probably worrying what your reaction will be

Reply 5

its natural to feel jealous especially if you were in love with her, its likely she didn't tell you because she feared upsetting you

Reply 6

She was probably a bit worried about your reaction - you were together for so long and are still friends so she probablt didnt want to hurt you. Also, to be honest i think it was also cowardliness on her part.
Its natural to feel jealous, youre only human!