Anon due to knowing a few members here outside of TSR.
Recently, my girlfriend has expressed her interest in getting a bullet vibrator and the first time she brought it up, I offered to get her one for her birthday, figured we could use it whilst we were having sex and that it would be all good...
Now, I'm quite the overthinker, and I get very anxious about alot of things, and the more I think about the idea of my girlfriend getting a vibrator, the worse I feel. For some reason, I'm scared that it will replace me, that she'll prefer that to anything I can offer, and that she'll choose that instead of me.
I tried speaking to her about it, and she said not to worry, she just won't get one, but she's been going on about it for a long time and I could see the disappointment in her eyes. Now on top of the original jealousy of the vibrator itself, I know feel guilty and selfish for her not being able to get one.
Does anyone have any advice? Or support O_o?
Thanks everyone.