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If you ask a guy for their number...

Anonymous #1

...And they give it you, is that good? Or could they just be giving it you to be polite?...x

Reply 1

Note

11

It can't be bad, and really where you take it from there determines how good it is.

Reply 2

JayG99

A guy (a decent average guy, not a jerk), when asked for a number, would never refuse because that would be really mean. The way you find out if he was being polite or otherwise is if after the first couple of texts/calls, if the guy HIMSELF calls or texts, it's 'good', as you say.
Hope that helps :smile:

Reply 3

*Mike*

11

i dont have a mobile and wouldnt want them to phone home incase my parents picked it up, so if a girl asked me for a phone number id have no clue what to do lol.

Reply 4

Note

11

Give them your national insurance number?

Reply 5

Alamothih

email

at least then u can talk a bit more privately than with parents knowing

Reply 6

gas_panic!

12

Just check it isn't the radio 1 flirt divert number.

Reply 7

Zoe_Holl

1

I'd say you can only really count on it being politeness, but thats not to say they dont like you. Text them, if they text back then thats probably a good sign.

Reply 8

Alamothih

yeah and most unshallow guys will at least talk back once youve got their number, maybe even meet up with you aswell. Cos after meeting they may like u more.

Reply 9

Vetinari

8

gas_panic!

Just check it isn't the radio 1 flirt divert number.

Heheh yeah, if they've given you a dud number then you should take it as a fairly big hint. :p:

But if they happily gave you their *real* number then they obviously don't dislike you.... or perhaps you are really scary and intimidating and they felt they had to give it to you if they wanted to keep their legs intact...

Reply 10

x.Utopian.Dream.x

It could be out of politeness, if they aren't a jerk but if they text you afterwards then they may like you. x

Reply 11

Chris.

1

Alamothih

yeah and most unshallow guys will at least talk back once youve got their number, maybe even meet up with you aswell. Cos after meeting they may like u more.

What a stupid post

And everyone else talking about being shallow, get a grip. If you aren't attracted to someone there is nothing to be gained by swapping numbers with them. It's not shallow, it's honest, and is a risk you take if you ask somebody for their number, whichever way around it is.

Reply 12

Tyler Durden

17

Anonymous

...And they give it you, is that good? Or could they just be giving it you to be polite?...x

Neither good nor bad. If a girl asked me for my number I'd give it regardless of whether I liked her or not. Although I might add in an extra 7 somewhere if I really didn't know/like her at all.

Reply 13

Holly Golightly

CS_Mike

i dont have a mobile and wouldnt want them to phone home incase my parents picked it up, so if a girl asked me for a phone number id have no clue what to do lol.

To be honest, you should probably just get a mobile...

Reply 14

Country Lad Rob

he could always give out the flirt divert number... then hed be a legend!

Reply 15

pbrown

It'd be pretty rude not to give the number, unless you were a complete stranger to the guy.

Reply 16

WokSz

17

Note

It can't be bad, and really where you take it from there determines how good it is.

Def agree! If I gave a girl my number, it means a good thing. But some guys are sluts :wink:

and give it to just anyone.

Reply 17

mortderire

10

hmm when i first met me GF, it was in a restaurant when i was with about 10 mates and she was with one other person. i had to leva early that day so i asked for her number, i had to ask for her mates number too cos that would have been kinda rude- lyk im ever gonna fone her lol

Reply 18

Anonymous #2

pbrown

It'd be pretty rude not to give the number, unless you were a complete stranger to the guy.

I always get asked for my number by random girls - but I just reply with "Sorry I can't give you it as I've got a girlfriend". Now that statement is not true but I'd rather not give my number out to 'strangers', unless they were fit of course.

Reply 19

FireDeuce

14

CS_Mike

i dont have a mobile and wouldnt want them to phone home incase my parents picked it up, so if a girl asked me for a phone number id have no clue what to do lol.

Say "argh my phones actually broken at the moment, but have my email address XXX"

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