Should I change the way I think about girls?

Not every girl is like that, loads are looking for a committed relationship. You'll find the right one soon, but be careful you don't come across as too 'old man' (ie only want to cuddle, stay in and watch movies); you need to keep the passion alive too, and a lot of people love going out and having a laugh, and there's nothing wrong with it either.
Also, what's wrong with girls who drink? Just because a girl has a drink doesn't mean she's a *****. You can't tar every girl with the same brush.

The more open minded you are, the quicker you'll find the right girl.

Basically, I have wanted to have a deep, meaningful long term relationship ever since I can remember. I always wanted someone I can connect with and love and trust and to be my best friend. I wanted a decent, good girlfriend who was girlfriend material and wife material. A good girl to put it simply..

Now I am beginning to have second thoughts about the whole thing. I have looked for ages but I just cant find a girl who is "relationship material". These days, they seem to be so wild and promiscuous and addicted to getting drunk. Not trying to offend anyone, it's just what I have observed.

Going through life alone and constantly coming across these types of girls is going to hurt me. It's already hurt me alot. Just in case anyone wants to ask, it hurts me because I feel like they have so much talent and potential but they're just throwing it away. I don't want to get hurt anymore so should I completely change the way I think about girls as a whole? Should I completely ditch the idea of love and a relationship and look at them in a more superficial way? Should I give up on finding true love and look at them in a more superficial way? Like, not look at them as potential girlfriends or friends?

Help would be appreciated, thanks.

Only reply to the thread if you are actually going to try and help and not get angry! Thanks!!!

No because I am answering your question. I am helping you. I'm suggesting you do change your view of women. Realise they are just people exactly the same as you. Could you respond to my points please? You can't make a thread slating girls and not expect anger.

Please stop making these threads. Please.

Oh. i'm sorry. Have I made this thread before?


Oh, actually no, I haven't. Oh dear, how sad.

There's nothing wrong with the way you think about girls or your views pertaining to an ideal partner but I've learnt that having expectations about people is hurtful in some way or another because people will always fall short of your expectations in one way or another because face it, we're only human.

My advice is to let loose a bit, don't be so rigid and have strict guidelines but at the same time, you don't have to settle for anyone that you KNOW you will be unhappy with. Keep your options open, learn to see the good in girls. Don't judge them immediately based on first impressions but get to know them. And lastly, be patient about finding the right one because you're not the only guy after girls of top notch quality, they are a rare breed but they are out there so keep looking

Are you ****ting me? You've made about four thousand threads about how no girls are up to your standards.

Going through life alone and constantly coming across these types of girls is going to hurt me. It's already hurt me alot. Just in case anyone wants to ask, it hurts me because I feel like they have so much talent and potential but they're just throwing it away. I don't want to get hurt anymore so should I completely change the way I think about girls as a whole? Should I completely ditch the idea of love and a relationship and look at them in a more superficial way? Should I give up on finding true love and look at them in a more superficial way? Like, not look at them as potential girlfriends or friends?

Well, in an ideal world, not being promiscuous/sleeping around and not getting drunk would be reasonable expectations. I guess our world has just been messed up beyond belief. Thanks for answering.

It would be nice if I could just ask for help without getting stupid comments and people trying to put me down. It really doesn't achieve anything at all so if you don't have something good to say , don't say it at all. Is the TSR community really this bad?