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why would he pull my hand away?

right well me and my bf were making out and he used his fingers on me and i wanted to return to favour by "pleasing" him shall we say, but he pulled my hand away and said leave it................

just wondering why he may have done tis, it was the first time we had done more than kiss.......i did hear from his last gf that they were once fooling around and she felt a wet patch thru her trousers from him........do u think that could have happened and hence by way he didnt want me to go there.........

if not why else would a guy pull a girls hand AWAY from his crotch???????

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Reply 1

There could be a million reasons, ask your boyfriend.

Reply 2

Maybe he just didn't feel comfortable with you doing it, or he "pleased" you without intention of receiving it in return.

I agree with narb - ask the boyfriend.

Reply 3

Gawwwddd.. give him a break.

Talk to him face to face if you really want to know.

Maybe he just didn't feel like taking it further, or didn't feel like it was the right time.

And why were you talking to his ex about him and personal experiences? And through her trousers... seems a bit farfetched...

Reply 4

1. youve got scabby hands
2. hes got a scabby willy
3. hes limp
4. he doesnt want to go that far yet
5. he already came (wow)
6. hes gay

I cant think of anything else.

Reply 5

Maybe he's embarrassed about his penis.

Reply 6

Aw don't worry too much it's probably nothing big. Just ask in a nice way without making him feel awkward.

I don't know how long you've been seeing each other but he may just need a bit more time to feel entirely comfortable with that.

Reply 7

i think it could be number 5 he seemed to really enjoy what he was doing to me lol

Reply 8

explosionsinthesky
Aw don't worry too much it's probably nothing big.


Possible reason? :p:

Anonymous
i think it could be number 5 he seemed to really enjoy what he was doing to me lol


Don't flatter yourself.. it could be the complete opposite.

Reply 9

explosionsinthesky
Aw don't worry too much it's probably nothing big.


ahahha yeah thats the problem :p:

edit: ah crap someone beat me to it :frown:

Reply 10

supernova2
ahahha yeah thats the problem :p:

edit: ah crap someone beat me to it :frown:


Great minds think alike :rolleyes:

Reply 11

Anonymous
i think it could be number 5 he seemed to really enjoy what he was doing to me lol

I'd severely doubt it. You'd generally notice a look on his face or something if he came. Possible, but unlikely. It's also possible he felt nervous, didn't want you to go that far yet, or just generally wanted to please you. As said, ask him.

Reply 12

Anonymous
why else would a guy pull a girls hand AWAY from his crotch???????
supernova2
1. youve got scabby hands
2. hes got a scabby willy
3. hes limp
4. he doesnt want to go that far yet
5. he already came (wow)
6. hes gay

I cant think of anything else.

Refine your prostate massage technique. :rolleyes:

Reply 13

He is a person. Not a sex machine. I bet people wouldn't respond with such surprise if it was a woman backing off...

Reply 14

Hey,

I'm going through an episode of gayness, and a girl tried to give me a blow job,, so I pushed her off me.

Did I do the right thing?

Reply 15

paintedfolk
He is a person. Not a sex machine. I bet people wouldn't respond with such surprise if it was a woman backing off...


Yeah - Girls can blame it on their period though :rolleyes:

Reply 16

Maybe he has a hairy area thing, and he was not prepared for it :biggrin:

Reply 17

Renza
Yeah - Girls can blame it on their period though :rolleyes:

tru tru!

Reply 18

Perhaps he has a problem with premature ejaculation. It could be anything - maybe he just wanted to focus on you. Ask him.... communicate FFS!

Reply 19

He was scared one of the crabs would bite you?