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He said he's busy

Ok well. I've explained in a previous post about someone who I like kept asking me who I fancied, and in the end I told him it was him. We swapped numbers and decided to get to know each other but then started not talking to me when I was online, etc. So I starting thinking he wasn't interested and I was v. confused so I ended up asking him straight out. Heres how it went:

Me: u know the other week we said we'd get to kno each other, well do u want to or not? id like to but if u dnt have no interest then jus say and ill be fine with it.

Him: well yeh course get to no each other, but ive been realy busy recently havent had time

Me: ahh ok thats fine then. if uv been busy. jus wanted to kno if u really did or not. was a bit confused. well when ur not busy anymore then u can tlk to me more if u want to. hope ur all ur exams went ok xx

Him: sorry

Him: didnt mean to confuse you


What do you think? Any opinions I will be grateul for. xx
lol - he's been having exams, and I assuem you have too!

Just get on with your exams and don't get distracted by all this. You can see that he's got his priorities straight concentrating on his work, while you are sitting there mocohing over whether he really likes you or not. Get down to some work girl! You'll have the whole of the summer to sort this stuff out after!
Reply 2
as taanya said. school, exams friends etc do seem to always take up much time.
so don't worry! just keep talking to him but try not to pressure him into meeting you. that could make him back off.
Thanks for the advice. Anymore?x
Reply 4
If a guy knows a girl's after him he'll go out of his way to make it difficult for her unless he's really into her. My advice, back off and leave him be for a while and wait till he contacts you.

regards
--marty
Reply 5
he probably WAS busy - exams aren't exactly good for a social life. Just wait a week or so and see what happens.