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Gay problems, i think

well there is this guy who ive been seeing, but to be honest wen we engage in anything sexual... i prefer to do stuff to him and not to me, like if he was to give me head or me give him anal etc, i dont get excited about the prospect of that..... i think its coz im kinda not confident about my own body and my body being the object of focus..

but im not sure.. wat do u guys think it is... is this normal to feel this way, can not feel confident about the state of your body inhibit you from wanting yourself pleasured???? or is it somethin else?!
or maybe you're straight! You're probably still experimenting and the gay phase will wear off.
Reply 2
Some people prefer to give, some to receive, and some have no preference...confidence could possibly be a factor, I suppose, and your reasons seem clear enough.

If you browse the internet, you can find a few tips on how to build confidence. Hope your relationship isn't affected too much by this issue :hugs:
Reply 3
Maybe you just need to ask him about it!
Reply 4
yeah i definately know i like men, and i also like women, but i think my body confidence issues stem from the fact that i have a really weird body shape, i.e. its kinda well lol feminine i think.

in the sense that i have kinda hips.. lol not reallly big ones but my bums kinda big/wide so it gives the illusion i have big hips and i have stretch marks around there, im so crazy and dramatic that i thought that i mite have supposed to been born a woman once lol..

but anyways is this normal.. have there been any guys who have had bigger than average "hips" with like stretch marks on the waist area??

?????
Your are one sick person.
Reply 6
Scott Storch
Your are one sick person.
Is that homophobia I sense?
Reply 7
Anonymous
or maybe you're straight! You're probably still experimenting and the gay phase will wear off.

uh, right:rolleyes:
Reply 8
only you know why, though of course what you are proposing is a possible explanation. but if you like this guy, and he likes you, just let your guard slip, and enjoy it. stop overanalysing.
mmm brokeback. But yeah people just prefer to give or receive. I know my gf prefers to give in most cases, which I wont complain about.
Anonymous
or maybe you're straight! You're probably still experimenting and the gay phase will wear off.

Lmao, are you being serious?