Best course of action for girl who seemed interested, not contacted this week?

Youve seemed too eager imo she probably thinks youre desperate. Nothing wrong with the texts youre sending its just to the wrong girl who's not appreciating them. You seem to be doing all the graft. I'd stop initiating and move onto the next one. If she's interested she'll initiate wondering why you haven't texted her for awhile wondering where the attention has gone. No girl is worth this much work if they arent giving back what you're putting in.

So not worth one last try? I was going to go with the "bank robbery" text. How long should I wait until I remove her number and her twitter/facebook? I usually do this to get over a girl, don't like seeing their name pop up.

I was in a similar situation a while ago. There was this girl that took ages to reply to me and always said she was busy. One day I was like shes not worth the effort im putting in and told her I dont get why she takes so long telling her i was annoyed. waited a couple months until I texted her again asking how she was and all that, but during those months I was talking to other girls meeting new people, moved on from her so I didn't keep on obsessing. Now it takes a couple of days for her to reply and once I just didnt reply because i got bored, 2 weeks later i get a text asking why I hadnt replied to her text.

You could send her another text but avoid always trying to be funny. Its good to be funny, but some people get bored of it after awhile and then you put pressure on yourself to always be funny and come up with stuff to say.

I dont think you should remove her at all. if anything it would benefit you keeping all that, letting her see you've moved on and what she possibly has missed out on. Also you never know she could be of use someday its always good to have acquaintances you keep in touch with once in awhile.

At the end of the day what I'm basically trying to say is dont get hooked on one girl. There are girls out there who'd appreciate the attention from you and you don't feel the need to change yourself for them. Its good to have more than one girl youre talking too, you dont obsess about just one person. Until you meet someone special.

Wise advice, I appreciate it. I'm not the sort of guy who dates multiple girls though, i'm lucky if I date one in the present time. Not because I'm bad looking, I get told I'm really good looking but it's more my confidence. The girls I usually like I'm more shy with, but if it's generally just a girl I'm not too keen on I'm fine, but I'd get bored of her after a while. But I am quite a shy person until I get a drink down me (which I'd rather avoid).

I know "being busy" is usually used as an excuse but she has been really busy with a second job and had nights planned out, I've seen that from her facebook and twitter where she's declined friend's invitations.

Regarding the response time, she usually responds very quickly, sometimes an hour. It's just been this week though, I'm not too sure what's happened. Maybe you're right about trying to be TOO funny.

I've been told to not initiate again, but I want to persist in the right way. I have given off mix signals myself such as being aloof so I don't seem more keen than her, especially last week.

What's the best thing to text her? I want to avoid a joke, but something more personal about how she's been, etc. If no response from that, I get my answer and move on.

I do want to remove her though if it doesn't work out, to avoid seeing her name pop up.. I know that she reacts to unfollows on Twitter, as I accidentally unfollowed her a while back after my phone ceased up and I pressed her instead and within 5-10 minutes she sent me a text. I think this might be a good idea that if she does respond to me deleting her, I'll keep it casual and say "I thought you weren't interested" or something, rather than act whiny.

I wouldn't text her. You've been texting pretty much all the time, and she seems to be responding in pretty lame ways. Also all you seem to do is joke, maybe you could actually talk about something? But my advice would be to stop talking and wait for her. If she's at least a bit interested in you, she'll message you. If not then just move on. You don't need to delete her but no need to message her.

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Wise advice, I appreciate it. I'm not the sort of guy who dates multiple girls though, i'm lucky if I date one in the present time. Not because I'm bad looking, I get told I'm really good looking but it's more my confidence. The girls I usually like I'm more shy with, but if it's generally just a girl I'm not too keen on I'm fine, but I'd get bored of her after a while. But I am quite a shy person until I get a drink down me (which I'd rather avoid).

I know "being busy" is usually used as an excuse but she has been really busy with a second job and had nights planned out, I've seen that from her facebook and twitter where she's declined friend's invitations.

Regarding the response time, she usually responds very quickly, sometimes an hour. It's just been this week though, I'm not too sure what's happened. Maybe you're right about trying to be TOO funny.

I've been told to not initiate again, but I want to persist in the right way. I have given off mix signals myself such as being aloof so I don't seem more keen than her, especially last week.

What's the best thing to text her? I want to avoid a joke, but something more personal about how she's been, etc. If no response from that, I get my answer and move on.

I do want to remove her though if it doesn't work out, to avoid seeing her name pop up.. I know that she reacts to unfollows on Twitter, as I accidentally unfollowed her a while back after my phone ceased up and I pressed her instead and within 5-10 minutes she sent me a text. I think this might be a good idea that if she does respond to me deleting her, I'll keep it casual and say "I thought you weren't interested" or something, rather than act whiny.

Dating isnt what I was really getting at. I meant just get numbers on nights out with friends learn to text girls and keep them interested and learn to flirt a bit, you never know you might even end up liking the person then think about dating. All i meant was being friendly with people, to build up confidence. I was pretty much like you probably still am. I only date one person at a time but there is nothing wrong with meeting new girls you dont date every girl you meet do you?
You sound pretty much like me though. You dont want to give all your attention to one girl and possibly miss out on someone better. After meeting a few girls on nights outs and texting them ive finally found a girl who i really like and shes my girlfriend now.

People say they are busy, but cant they spare a couple minutes during the day just to talk to you? If they really liked you they would make time for you. Reading a text and sending a text doesnt take that long. If they are interested they'd make time for you.

Do you know much about her like her interests? Id wait a week, then out of the blue say something like "Hey haven't heard from you for awhile, how you been? [Bring up something you know she'd be interested in]"
Waiting a week will give you more stuff to talk about if she replies.
You could also just be direct with her about your true feelings, for example like what you said tell her you thought she wasnt interested if she asks if theres something wrong.
Also instead of constantly texting you could just make plans to meet up.

doesn't seem like she's that interested...

She was the other week though, which is what I don't get.

Yeah, I haven't heard from her since Monday though, so it's already hitting a week. Someone suggested to me that she might have been offended by my "alien joke" by assuming she's not attractive. Now that I think about it, I can see what they mean.

So by that, I'm thinking of asking how she's been after the weekend. If no reply still, I'll remove her. For some reason, she's the type to take offence if a friend or someone she talks to removes her. She'll question why they did that. So if she does with me, I'll be direct and say "Well I wanted to get to know you more, but I assumed you wasn't interested".

those replies you put in the first post don't point towards her being interested. anyway things can change but if she wanted to contact you she would have, i wouldn't send another text.

The thing with banter is there has to be a balance. Some girls take stuff to hurt too easily. Girls who are secure with themselves will banter back and it can be fun, but some arent so secure so you have to be considerate sometimes. you just have to gage the sort of person they are. So if you're going to do jokes like the alien one make sure you also let her know she's beautiful etc. It doesnt have to be right after an ugly joke but sometime during the day compliment her. That way she definitely knows youre joking.

Maybe its just me but I dont see why you need to delete her off your facebook or twitter. Its not like she was your girlfriend. I think keeping her has more benefits than you deleting her.

Hmm, so would it be wise to text her one day "Hello beautiful" instead of say hello cheeky? Obviously to assure it was a joke.

The deleting thing is just an "out of sight, out of mind" thing. Guess it helps with my ego partially.

What makes you think it would have more benefits? If she's going to end up ignoring me fully, I don't understand what you mean by that.

You can tell her shes beautiful but make it personal to her what makes her beautiful to you? I'd probably leave that until later until you know shes interested. Girls like it when they know you've been thinking about them, that they were on your mind. Simple text like Recently thought about you how have you been could be enough to start a convo. Id make this the last text though if she doesnt respond at all or in a way that you like that shows shes still interested.

If the girl can see you have moved on and they were indeed interested, it could annoy them more that they missed an opportunity and could lead to them getting in touch with you again happens sometimes. And you dont have to have a thing with everyone girl its good to surround yourself with some female friends too. well this part is just my opinion youre free to delete her and move on.