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    She sounds awfully complicated. Either she loves you and wants to be with you or not.

    At any rate what's the difference between bf and best friend, you sleep with one not the other? So you had sex but now she thinks you're not attractive anymore? At that age I can't believe anyone would stop having sex once they got to have it.

    Sounds too immature tbh.
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    It is only 3 months in and you're both 16, so her feeling confused is completely understandable. If I were you, I'd suggest that she take some time off to get her head straight, a break would probably be good for both of you.

    If not then just take it really slow, act like a best friend until she's comfortable enough to start with the romantic/sexual aspect of things again.
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    Dude some advice from one guy to another. Back right off. She said she needs some space so give it too her. Don't get in back contact with her until she contacts you.
    You're more likely to get a positive outcome from this if you stop chasing her. Smothering her with questions will just drive her away.
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    (Original post by Party55511)
    Dude some advice from one guy to another. Back right off. She said she needs some space so give it too her. Don't get in back contact with her until she contacts you.
    You're more likely to get a positive outcome from this if you stop chasing her. Smothering her with questions will just drive her away.
    Got it. Thank you
    I won't text her now till she comes back.

    Thanks again.
 
 
 
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