Which girl

Here's the situation im in :

I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and she can be a nice girl but i've noticed she can be very chav like at times ie swearing alot and her family are the same but i know she likes me alot, but yesterday another girl i've known longer whose a very nice girl from a good family who i've got much more in common with said she wants to be with me and i think i want to be with her aswell and how do i tell the other girl ?

What do you think i should do ?

Reply 1

Glory

The grass is always greener on the other side, until you get there. You should follow your heart, but you could ruin something which could be good by thinking theres a better offer elsewhere.

Reply 2

shinyhappy

Sounds like you've already decided you want the non-chav. Just find some way of nicely letting down your current gf. If it has only been a few weeks, shouldn't be too hard on her. For God's sake, don't tell her its because you think she's a chav though! If she doesn't know the other girl, and isn't likely to find out if you start going out with her, you could try gently telling her you're 'not ready for a relationship'. Alternatively, just say that you don't think you have enough in common, and she deserves someone better!
If there's an age gap between you and your girlfriend, perhaps say that you think its too big a difference?
I wouldn't normally suggest lying to people like this, but I think she'd be a lot less hurt if you gently let her down, than if you told her that you'd prefer to go out with someone else, who wasn't quite as chav-ish.