Boyfriend read my Facebook messages

I don't think anyone has the right to open and read your mail without your consent - let it be your parents or your partner
But if he's read it then you can't reverse it. Ask him if he actually read your messages on Facebook, and if he did, then talk to him about it. If he really cares, then he might be upset at why you didn't tell him about your problems. You shouldn't be anxious or afraid, because there shouldn't be anything to hide from him any more

That seems really out of order. He shouldn't read your messages unless you say so. It's not like you've cheated on him or something, it's just one of those things. He has a right to be a little upset, but he's definitely in the wrong!

Thank you for replying! How should I handle it? Should I confront him? Or just wait to see how he replies to my message and if he is being normal not mention it?

Do you have any proof he's read through them or are you just assuming he has? My group of friends used to frape each other all the time but not once did we go through someones messages. Maybe send a couple but never read through private conversations. One of my friends has had my password for months and i'd be mortified if I knew she'd been reading through them, but I trust her not to.

Thank you for your reply . Do you think if he replies normally (doesn't seem weird like he's read anything) then I should not mention it? Or should I bring it up anyway? I don't want to seem paranoid but I think he probably would have read them since it was right there in front of him and would be difficult to resist.

I'm more worried about if he read that I was starting to find everything he did annoying as I had spent too much time with him as I'd be upset if I read he'd said that about me. I only meant that everybody needs their space.

Why not just have a discussion about how you need your own space? Tell him how you love him, but at the same time you need to be on your own sometimes. I think everyone's like that! That way, if he saw the message you'll have explained what you meant, and even if he didn't then you still need to talk about it because it's important for your relationship not to just leave things until they're too late.

Do you have any proof he's read through them or are you just assuming he has? My group of friends used to frape each other all the time but not once did we go through someones messages. Maybe send a couple but never read through private conversations. One of my friends has had my password for months and i'd be mortified if I knew she'd been reading through them, but I trust her not to.

When I logged on the inbox icon was not red but I had new messages which means he'd clicked onto my inbox. In a way I don't blame him as it would be difficult to resist but surely if was going to read messages he'd scroll down to an ex boyfriend or a guy he knows likes me? Would he even bother to click onto messages from friends? I don't know how male brains work, haha!

Hold up, if you get a new message but you log in and out, or ignore it for a while, refreshing the page, skimming through events or whatever, the red icon goes away, but your message is still unread, and will be marked as unread in your inbox.
What you should have done is go into the inbox and seen if any of the messages were marked as unread (slightly darker blue, not white background) however now you have clicked on them I assume?

Point is, you cant assume he has read them from what you have seen. However, if you find out from him he HAS read them, damn, thats not cool, in any way.