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    Last year I lived in a mixed hall. One of the girls there, who is really friendly, started slapping my bum as a joke. The first time she did it I was gobsmacked and didnt know what to say, so i laughed it off. But she keeps doing it, for no reason, it makes me feel like a piece of meat. Should I confront her about this?:confused:
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    If you did it to her then you would get done for sexual harassment and get mobbed by angry fems. The double standards is strong in this one!
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    (Original post by MancBoy)
    If you did it to her then you would get done for sexual harassment and get mobbed by angry fems. The double standards is strong in this one!
    This. Lol

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    Tell her to stop. If she doesn't go to a higher authority about it.
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    Do it back. If she likes it, banging is imminent. If she doesn't like it, she'll likely stop doing it to you. Win-win!
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    OK seriously, there is a difference between sexual abuse and sexual harassment. I was very worried when I clicked on the thread link.

    But yeah, just tell her to stop.
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    Tell her to stop!
    You shouldn't have to put up with her making you feel uncomfortable.
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Do it back. If she likes it, banging is imminent. If she doesn't like it, she'll likely stop doing it to you. Win-win!
    This. Perfect strategy which, if fails, can be resolved by the "she started it" clause.
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    just take it as banter, or she just wants something
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    She probably has no idea that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If you tell her then I'm sure she would stop doing it.
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    If your not comfortable with it, do something about it. However, if you feel ok with it, do something about it.
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Do it back. If she likes it, banging is imminent. If she doesn't like it, she'll likely stop doing it to you. Win-win!
    I second this! :yep:
    Either way it's a win win situation for OP
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    (Original post by Solid.Snake)
    I second this! :yep:
    Either way it's a win win situation for OP
    Lucky lad!
    Wish this would happen to me

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    (Original post by Solid.Snake)
    I second this! :yep:
    Either way it's a win win situation for OP
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    Lucky lad!
    Wish this would happen to me

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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Do it back. If she likes it, banging is imminent. If she doesn't like it, she'll likely stop doing it to you. Win-win!
    She might not be attractive though...

    OP ask her to stop, if she continues make a complaint.
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    I wouldn't say this was 'sexual abuse', I'd say it's more like sexual harassment and you should tell her she's creeping you out and to stop. It's p. weird that she hasn't picked up the fact that you're finding it odd and hasn't stopped although it'd say it's more likely she's doing it because she thinks it's funny more than because she's getting off on it.

    bracing myself for all the passive aggressive anti feminist posts that are about to flood this thread
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Do it back. If she likes it, banging is imminent. If she doesn't like it, she'll likely stop doing it to you. Win-win!
    The thing is he doesn't like it so he probably doesn't like HER. If she's gonna like it then it's a problem not a win-win.
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    (Original post by MancBoy)
    If you did it to her then you would get done for sexual harassment and get mobbed by angry fems. The double standards is strong in this one!
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    This. Lol


    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Do it back. If she likes it, banging is imminent. If she doesn't like it, she'll likely stop doing it to you. Win-win!


    (Original post by printergirl)
    Lucky lad!
    (Original post by printergirl)
    Wish this would happen to me

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    (Original post by ThatLTUguy)
    The thing is he doesn't like it so he probably doesn't like HER. If she's gonna like it then it's a problem not a win-win.
    (Original post by ThatLTUguy)


    Hasn't any one considered that the OP could also be a girl?
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    I wouldn't call this abuse :lol: But clearly it's making you uncomfortable. Firmly tell her to stop, explaining to her that you don't like it.
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    (Original post by de_monies)







    Hasn't any one considered that the OP could also be a girl?
    The OP says 'I lived in a mixed hall' which suggests the OP is of the opposite gender to the person OP is describing.
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    Threaten her! Tell her if she doesn't stop you'll squeeze her boobs every time she walks by.
 
 
 
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