Last year I lived in a mixed hall. One of the girls there, who is really friendly, started slapping my bum as a joke. The first time she did it I was gobsmacked and didnt know what to say, so i laughed it off. But she keeps doing it, for no reason, it makes me feel like a piece of meat. Should I confront her about this?
You have every right to feel comfortable in your halls. If you don't appreciate the harassment (yes, it's sexual harassment, not abuse) then be straightforward. If she doesn't take that seriously, tell someone with authority. No one should have to put up with harassment.
If you did it to her then you would get done for sexual harassment and get mobbed by angry fems. The double standards is strong in this one!
Erm, not really. I consider myself a feminist and I feel very sympathetic towards the guy. Also, you wouldn't be able to get police involved in such a context, whether it was a male harassing a female or female harassing a male.
Last year I lived in a mixed hall. One of the girls there, who is really friendly, started slapping my bum as a joke. The first time she did it I was gobsmacked and didnt know what to say, so i laughed it off. But she keeps doing it, for no reason, it makes me feel like a piece of meat. Should I confront her about this?
Only on TSR.... just bang her you fool and man the hell up