Embarrassing subject for boyfriend

I bet he's taken it on board already... No need to bring it up again unless nothing has changed.


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See, I think he has listened to a certain extent but there has been a few times I have noticed it (mentioned this about 3 months ago). I also noticed the mark thing about 2 days ago, which is why I posted the thread.

This is one of the grimmest things I've read on TSR! Sometimes a man will mark his territory, like a mighty stallion.

At that point you probably just want to leave, because realistically if he can't wipe his arse in his twenties, he never will. Do you want to pick crusty excrement off boxers with a kirby grip!? Do you!?

He can wipe his ass, of course he can, but I don't feel he's doing it thorough enough, which is what I want to approach.

I've heard flatulence can cause spots of bother, especially as his diet is high in fiber and protein.

Haha, that's exactly what I want to avoid in the future!

Well it is something that's better coming from you then someone else. If he's got any sense he'll make an effort. Does he have any stomach related problems?

This is one of the grimmest things I've read on TSR! Sometimes a man will mark his territory, like a mighty stallion.

At that point you probably just want to leave, because realistically if he can't wipe his arse in his twenties, he never will. Do you want to pick crusty excrement off boxers with a kirby grip!? Do you!?

Definitely. It's better coming from me than from anyone else imo.

He has IBS, so this could also be hindering the problem and might also one of the causes. I do care for him and it is quite off-putting but it does need to be addressed.

Hi everyone,

My boyfriend & I have been going out over a year but I have found it difficult to approach this subject with him and when I did, he didn't respond well. The question is, how do I say it so that it can be changed without hurting him?

The problem is, sometimes (not always!) I feel that my boyfriend doesn't clean his bottom part properly, as I can sometimes smell an unpleasant smell and think, but not certain, that I have seen a mark on our friend's couch.

I drunkenly spoke to him about my concerns one night and I could tell he didn't take it very well. Now I know no-one would respond well to saying that they noticed something like this, but I thought it would be better myself saying it to him instead of an outsider, who may have noticed. When I spotted a mark on his underwear he also said that this is due to flatulence.

I've heard it's more difficult for guys to clean their bums, due to hair etc, but what could I do to encourage him to ensure his area is thoroughly clean without hurting his feelings? We spoke about it that one occasion but I like to reproach the subject.